ALAYSA M.

MUNGKAS BSN-1A
9/18/22

REFLECTION PAPER

The video presentation discusses communication psychology. First and

foremost, I'd like to express my thoughts on the video that I've seen. I really liked this
show since it inspired me to learn more about how to engage with people in person,
how digital media communication works, what to do and don't do when interacting, and
so on. But my favorite part of the film is when she says, "remember that we reply within
a second" because I believe that responding to someone who messages you is a
gesture of respect, and you must respond regardless of what occurs. If someone sends
you a message and you need to respond, do so. Because if you were in their position
and no one responded to your message, you would be unhappy, and it would also lead
to misunderstanding. It's impolite to keep someone waiting for a response, even if it's
merely to acknowledge that you received their message. You should understand how it
feels to be unread. It also inspires me when she says, "When they interact with you,
their brain and body will be in a happy place." I can say that I can hook up to that
because when I'm stressed, upset, and down, or lack the energy to live my own life, I
tend to talk to people I care about and spend time with them. When I talk to my loved
ones, I feel that it gives me a pleasant and happy vibe. It also reminded me of Helen
Mortis-statement Brown's that "when things don't fit our expectations, it feels incredibly
unpleasant." Most of the time, people disappoint me in such a way that my expectations
don't match their actions. Especially when it comes to communication, if you're like me
and you're constantly thrilled when talking to someone, I want that person to be just as
excited as me. More importantly, when I'm discussing something that brings me joy.
However, if that person does not match my energy level, I will be quite unhappy. I know
I can't control other people's feelings; perhaps they're just not in the mood or don't have
the energy, and I guess I'll just have to accept that. Now I'm going to talk about what
we need to do to grasp how to use digital platforms, as demonstrated by the video. Most
people post stuff on social media regardless of their feelings. They don't even consider
the quote "think before you click." Misunderstandings are significantly more common
than they used to be, and this is largely due to our failure to use our filters. However, the
absence of a filter is something entirely distinct. When someone lacks a filter, it
indicates they do not consider the audience and frequently say things that are harsh,
condescending, or outright cruel. We must learn to use digital platforms effectively every
time and then do so more frequently. Also, if you're going to commend someone on
social media, keep in mind that we have inbuilt radar for phony compliments, so if you're
going to do it, make sure it's truthful and sincere because we all know there are
sarcastic compliments, so make sure you do it right. Finally, I agree with Helen when
she says that the key to meeting expectations is to do what you say you'll do. Don't let
others make them feel awful about what you committed to do. Give them no false hope.
Always stand to the right of what you've said. That's all I've learned thus far for today. I
like the video because it inspired me and taught me how communication works and how
to use it effectively. I genuinely think this is my fave video right now. Thank you for
sharing this with us, Sir Glenn, and thank you to Ms. Helen Mortis Brown for your
wonderful words. I intend to apply what I've learned both now and in the future.