Communicating can be delivered in many different ways.

We utilize communication to share

information, make comments, ask questions, express wants and needs, build social bonds, learn social
etiquette, and so on. Wants and needs are only a part of communication. We must develop
opportunities for communication based on these concepts for a variety of reasons. For instance, if you
ask a certain person to hang out, we deliver that message in varies of ways depends on the setting and
your relationship with the audience that you are with.

To produce a long-lasting and fruitful discourse, communicative strategies are employed. If I would ask
my friends to hang out, I usually communicate with them in a small group asking them to hang out and
talking in a casual style where we use to speak in unfinished sentences and use a lot of trendy terms and
phrases. Uses slang; does not pay attention to pronunciation, grammar, or word choice. Thus, we utter
assertive act in our conversations. If we base the act in the statement that I gave which is asking and
inviting my friends to hang out then directive illocutionary act is seen in that statement. As the speaker
who initiates the interaction, I’ll deliver the message which is the core concept of the interaction to my
audience which is my friends through a concept that they are able to fully understand. In such I will
open up the conversation or if there is already a topic that we are discussing I will shift the topic to the
topic that I have chosen which is hanging out with them. We can discuss it by taking turns to express our
opinion as long as possible and put restrictions to prevent unfinished discussion and for us to focus in
the topic, after deciding to hang out or not we can terminate the discussion or by shifting it once again
from one topic to another, where one part of the conversation ends and another begins.

Case by case we talk to our parents in a friendly way and others tend to convers in a more formal way
out of respect. Intimate speech style is used to converse with our parents, speaking in an intimate style
does not care about grammar or pronunciation. It also employs a lot of sentence fragments and broken
speech. Dyad or small group discussion is used in communicating depends if one of your parents is
absent in that certain time. And by asking them to hang out with the family directive act is used to
request and ask them to hang out in an intimate speech style thus proceeds to commissive act by
planning a trip in near future but unlike the way of asking your friend in a casual way we ask our parents
in a more formal intimate way where we carefully choose our words and be more respectful. With these
types of speech, we can open a conversation first and if there is already, we can shift the topic and open
a new conversation. As the speaker who interacts and initiates the interaction in the conversation, I will
deliver it in a manner where they can fully understand the message that I would like to convey by
speaking in an appropriate way, by being clear, eliminating vague words, be straight to the point, and
give restrictions to pertains to any limitation you may use as a speaker, to discuss only related to the
topic. The discussion will take as long as it needs to further understand the discussion and appropriate
planning. After that we can take turns by speaking our opinions and plans towards the trip, repair the
conversation if needed after that we can terminate the discussion by completing and concluding the
plan or you may shift the topic once again to begin a new discussion.

We communicate differently depends on the person we communicate. We express ourselves in different

ways and we are free to do so. With these speech acts, styles, context, and communicative strategies
further helps us to achieve a fruitful conversation and effective communication let us freely express
ourselves in our own unique way with a right direction.