Philosophy Sage

@philosophysage

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17 ways to be an amazing husband:

Getting married is not an excuse to get comfortable.

…It’s an opportunity to become your best self.

1. Don’t try to change her

Focus on growing together and holding each other

accountable.

2. Know her love language

1. Words of affirmation
2. Quality times
3. Physical touch
4. Acts of service
5. Gifts
3. Never stop dating

Continue to be the man your wife fell in love with.

Don’t get comfortable.

Boredom is the enemy.

4. Pursue your purpose

A man with a strong purpose is unstoppable.

If you don’t know your purpose, read:

“Managing Oneself” by Peter Drucker

5. She is not your mother

It’s not her job to make you happy…

…that’s your responsibility.

She should increase your happiness, not be the

source.
6. Loyalty

A woman proves her loyalty by staying with him when

he’s broke.

A man proves his loyalty by staying with her when

she’s sick.
7. Be decisive

Overthinking is unattractive.

Make quick decisions with an open mind for

adaptability.

8. Protect and provide

Learn martial arts:

•Boxing
•Wrestling
•Jiu jitsu
•Kickboxing

Be wise with money and have an emergency fund for

a psychological advantage.
9. Respect

You can have disagreements without losing respect

for one another.

10. Stop seeking approval

As a man, you will be taken for granted.

You don’t need recognition for everything.

11. Communicate effectively

Be honest, vulnerable, and don’t play games.

Don’t withhold information from each other. You’re not

a mind-reader.
12. Tell her regularly

-I love you
-I support you
-I love talking to you
-I cant imagine my life without you

13. Optimism

No one likes being around a pessimist.

The most successful people I know are usually

irrationally optimistic.

14. Support her no matter what.

15. Listen

Sometimes the best form of communication is

listening.

She doesn’t always need her problems fixed.

She wants you to listen.

16. Notice the little things

When she feels heard, she feels loved.

This shows you pay attention.

The small things are important!

17. Be healthy

Every successful person I know has high energy.

When you’re healthy, it’s easy for your wife and kids to
be healthy:

-Lift weights
-15k steps a day
-Be highly active
-Eat nutrient dense food
-Good hydration
-Eat with moderation
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