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• His results over the last six months had been particularly
impressive, so his boss decided to reward him. He called
Barry into his office and told him he was so pleased with
Barry’s performance that the company would pay for a
two-week Caribbean cruise for Barry and his family.
• Naturally, Barry was very pleased and wanted to
share his happiness with his colleagues. The first
person he saw was Mark, a colleague also working as
a sales manager in the same department. When he
told Mark, he was surprised by Mark’s reaction. Even
though Mark said he was pleased for him, Barry got
the impression that Mark was in some way
disappointed. In actual fact, Mark took the news
quite badly. He felt angry and started to ask himself
why it wasn’t him going on the cruise.
• Mark started telling other colleagues in the department
about the unfair decision and how angry he was. He even
started spreading rumors about Barry in an attempt to
make him look bad and reinforce Mark’s belief that this was
unfair.
• He also took the negative emotions home with him, and
told his wife what a terrible job he has and how his boss
doesn’t like him. In fact, Mark held on to these negative
emotions and spent the next few weeks at work feeling
sorry for himself, still unable to come to terms with the
injustice he felt he had suffered.
Can we improve our Emotional
Intelligence?
• To be successful requires effective awareness,
control and management of your own
emotions, and awareness and understanding
of other people.
• EI therefore embraces two aspects of
intelligence:
• 1) understanding yourself, your goals,
intentions, responses, behaviour and all;
• 2) understanding others and their feelings.
Regard
• Self-regard (or self-esteem)
• How much do you value yourself as a person?
• Self-regard is about who you are, not what you
do.
• If we like and accept ourselves it will have a
positive impact on all situations.
• You can’t really help others until you have helped
yourself!
• What self-regard actually is:
• it is about how much you accept and value
yourself as a person.
• Accepting and valuing ourselves is essential
for good health, happiness and success
• The following example demonstrates how self-
regard can impact on performance at work.
• Julie and the PowerPoint presentation