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We begin with Tony Robbins leading a relationship seminar for his elite group of
platinum partners in Thailand.

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It's the fourth day of the event and Tony is about to take shares from the
audience.

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He starts the day with a woman named Carrie, there with her husband, Kieran.

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Seeing that she's in pain, Tony decides to talk to different parts of Carrie's
personality, parts within her that she may have been suppressing that may also be
the source of some of her pain.

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What do you do when you love your wife so much and she's always unhappy?

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Why would she be unhappy?

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Why?

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You tell me.

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Give her a hand.

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Did you remember a nickname as a child?

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Kez.

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And when you think about Kez, what do you think?

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Someone that's fun and happy?

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I wonder how I knew that.

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So Kez.

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I'd like to speak to Kez for a moment Now.

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Kez.

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That other woman stood up and started to cry immediately over nothing.

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And you know it's over.

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Nothing.

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I want to speak to Kaz.

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Not the other part.

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I'll come to the other part.

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Don't worry.

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I'll come visit her too.

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So am I speaking to Kaz?

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Good.

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That's who I want to stay with for right now.

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I'm asking the part of you that feels happy for no good reason.

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The one that's not been running the show for a long time.

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But she used to.

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Am I right?

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What stage of life did you run the show, Kaz?

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Up until I was about up until about 219992000, I ran the show.

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OK, good.

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Listen.

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Give her.

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Hand for that laugh.
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You hear that laugh.

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How old was she at that age, Kez, How old were you at that stage?

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Better.

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Yeah, Kez.

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How old are you?

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Really.

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You Kez.

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Not her.

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You.

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You're a certain age.

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Tell me what age you are in, just.

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Tell me.

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What age you really are in?

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You you, the stage of life, the age of life that you are 25.

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Yes, that's right, 25.

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That's right.

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And how alive do you feel, Kez?

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When?

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I'm.

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I'm.
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Just talking to Kez.

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Kez, How alive do you feel?

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Kez.

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Alive.

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Yeah.

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Good.

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Very happy.

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Very happy.

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SO25 and Kez, you were in the show till 2000.

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How old did she get?

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At 2055 she got a 55.

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That's what she became emotionally.

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And how old was she physiologically?

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At two at 2000.

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I was born in 74, So what's that 84942626?

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OK, but she became 55 this 55 year old who took over in the year 2000.

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What's her name?

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Give me a name for her.

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Agnes.

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Agnes.

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Good.

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I thought so.

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So there's Kaz.

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And then there's Agnes, who took over at 55.

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Now tell me something.

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Why did?

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Well, first of all, can you tell me one thing?

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What's your job to give?

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And what?

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Are we?

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We're going to call this.

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This energy that is you, all these parts together.

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Who is that woman?

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Give me that woman's name.

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The name you would call her.

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The spirit or soul?

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Selena.

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Selena.

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And is that a given name or a name that you just know is the the essence of the
soul?
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It just came to me.

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When you think of Selena, what do you know?

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Selena is what?

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Tell me who she is.

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She's strong.

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She's strong.

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She's positive.

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She's positive.

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She knows her direction.

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She knows her direction.

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She's fun and happy.

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She's fun and happy.

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Have you met Selena?

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When you guys first met, was who were you dating when you first met?

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Was it Kaz or Selena or Agnes?

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I would say it's a combination of Kaz and Selena.

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Yeah, that's what I thought.

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Thank you.

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So, so, Selena, is your soul interesting?

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She's fiery as well.

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Oh, she's fiery as well.

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Good.

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Almost left that one out.

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So she's fiery and she's fun and she's happy.

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She's strong.

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Strong.

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Yeah, Positive and positive.

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OK, so, and I want you to notice something that Selena has a blueprint that will
always make life great.

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Every man and woman pay attention right now.

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Every man and woman in this room.

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This is going to be your lesson.

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The quality of your relationship is the quality of your state.

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Moment to moment.

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You can change that moment to moment long term.

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It's being controlled by your blueprint.

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The blueprint is the beliefs, values and rules you have.

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But here's the challenge, ladies and gentlemen.

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There's an illusion that you have one blueprint, actually, you have multiple
personalities.

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And if you have a woman, you have many multiple sets of personalities, and you met
one or two of them, or three or four of them, and you combine them into one
thought.

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And then some of you keep selecting and connecting with another part of them
without realizing it.

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And you go, what happened?

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They changed.

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They didn't change.

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You're just connecting with a different part of them or something did change in the
life condition.

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Something changed.

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And so as a result, this person had a different part of them start to take over.

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If they're happy, that part is a more developed part.

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If they're unhappy, it's a more immature part or an older part.

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And did you ever notice that when some people get older they get less mature?

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Is it true they get more bitchy, cranky?

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They almost.

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Like when?

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A when a child.

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Is born if they don't get what they want.

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How do children respond?

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People say children.

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Are so loving, are babies.
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So loving, really.

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No.

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If they don't get what they want, what do they?

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Do they?

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Cry.

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They scream.

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They grimace.

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They put ugly looks on their face.

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They'll spit on you.

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Is it true they'll smack you?

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Will they smack you?

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They if they don't get what they want, they'll do whatever it takes.

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Get what they want and they don't give a damn about anybody but whom themselves.

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But as we maturely get to the point, you don't get rewarded for that behavior.

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And you have to adapt, and some people adapt into pleasing and some people adapt.

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Into achieving and some.

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People adapt into learning, and some people adapt to having the philosopher's
understanding, and some people adapt into being funny, and some people adapt into
creating problems, and some people adapt into having problems.

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But eventually, what some people do as they get older and older, they don't get
wiser.

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There's a stage in which they get more and more cranky and more and more bitchy and
more and more rules and more and more.

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Expectations.

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See what makes you absolutely.

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Mature is too.

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Many expectations.

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The more.

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Blueprint expectations.

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You have.

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The more rules you have, the more.

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Unhappy you're.

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Going to.

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Be It doesn't matter who you are.

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And as people get older very often, they expect that this new stage should be
easier than the last stage.

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When life doesn't really give something, whether you think it's easier or not.

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Life doesn't.

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Give something whether you're happy, that's.

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Your job life.

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Gives something, only one thing.

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You grow and you give something out of that growth, 'cause you grow or you what?

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That ain't my rules, rules the universe.

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Everything in the universe grows or?

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Dies and.

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You contribute or you're eventually what?

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Eliminated Evolution will do that if nothing else.

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If you're no longer contributing in a significant scale to something larger than
yourself, even larger than your species, you're out of here.