Khc bit trong giao tip gia nam v n

Khi lm vic, ph n v nam gii s dng nhng chin thut khc nhau trong giao tip v khng phi lc no cng c pha bn kia thng hiu trn vn. iu ny c th lm nh hng n tin cng vic v thm ch l quan h ng nghip. Hiu lm c th b xa b nu cc hnh vi giao tip ca nam v n c gii m tha ng:

Nam gii trong giao tip cng s

1. Ph bnh, bn ct

C th bn thy nam gii thng ni a, khng nghim tc, hay chc gho, ph bnh ngi khc. Thc cht y chnh l cch m n ng s dng chng t v

tr ca mnh.

Ph n cho rng: Chc gho ngi khc khin i phng cm thy nh b, v vi ph n, nhng kiu ph bnh, bn ct ny ch th hin s kiu ngo, thm ch l gy hn.

kin chuyn gia: Nhng kiu bn ct ca nam gii thng l v hi, min l c bn tung bn hng. Thm ch, i lc, nu ng qu nghim tc xt nt th y cng l mt kiu gii ta p lc trong cng vic khi mi ngi ang phi b u chy theo d n, hay doanh s.

2. t t cu hi

Nam gii thng t t cu hi trong cng vic v s rng ngi khc s ngh mnh thiu kin thc, nng lc. H nh ng kin thc vi quyn lc ni cng s v khng mun b mt mt nu t ra thp km.

Ph n cho rng: Nhng hnh ng nh th tht tr con, thm ch l chnh v mt thi gian. S hiu qu hn nu anh ta mnh dn hi, c cu tr li v xc tin nhanh cng vic.

kin chuyn gia: Mt s mi trng lm vic khng khuyn khch nhn vin hi qu nhiu v i lc to cho nhn vin cm gic t ti nu lm g cng hi. Trong mt s cuc hp, khng nht thit phi a ra qu nhiu cu hi v mi ngi cn thng nht vi nhau c th chn la chin lc tt nht cho cng ty, t tng nhn vin s c cch ring t tm hiu chi tit.

3. Thiu phn hi

n gin l n ng khng thch b ch trch v ngh rng nhng li khen ch khin ngi khc ng qun trn chin thng. Do , h khng yu cu phn hi v cng khng mun phn hi vi ngi khc.

Ph n cho rng: Nam gii khng bit trn trng ng gp ca h v ch bit ch trch. Thm ch ph n cng cho rng mc ch ca vic khng phn hi l khng mun cho ch em c hi thng tin hoc c m nhn cc d n ln.

kin chuyn gia: Cc phn hi mang tnh cht xy dng l cn thit i vi vn ha cng ty. C hai gii cn tm cch tn dng cng c ny nhm ci thin cht lng cng vic.

N gii trong giao tip cng s

1. i hi bnh ng

Ph n lun c gng m bo s bnh ng cho mi nhn vin trong cng s. H mong mun tt c c i x nh l nhn vin c ch v ng gp hiu qu cho cng ty.

n ng cho rng: Nam gii cho rng y l du hin cho thy ph n thiu t tin v nng lc lm lnh o.

kin chuyn gia: Ph n c th to th v lc cho mnh bng cch iu phi v hp tc tt vi cc bn. y l iu nam gii c th hc hi. Tuy nhin, ph n khi nm gi cc v tr lnh o cn t r lp trng v ranh gii v mt quyn hn vi nhn vin.

2. Qu cu ton trong cc cuc thng thuyt

Ph n mun thy ton cnh v m bo cc bn nm r tt tn tt mi chi tit v thng hiu ln nhau trc khi a ra quyt nh.

n ng cho rng: Cch lm ca ph n hon ton tri ngc vi nam gii. Vi cch lm ny, ph n t ra mnh thiu lp trng r rng v khng quyt on.

kin chuyn gia: Trong thng thuyt, quan trng l ch bn phi nm cc yu t c tnh nh hng trc khi ra quyt nh. Mt khc, m bo mi ngi u vui v khng phi l cch cc nh lnh o ra quyt nh. S tht l tng nu phi hp c s quyt on ca nam gii v tnh t m ca ph n.

3. Khng chc chn

Ph n khng mun t ra hi thc hoc khng lo ngh n v tr v kin ca ngi khc.

n ng cho rng: V vy, ph n thng khng chc chn trong mi vic v thng cn ngi khc ng ra chu trch nhim.

 kin chuyn gia: Cn bng gia khim tn v nhn nhng l phm cht tt ca lnh o. Nhng nu lc no cng nng theo kin v mong i ca ngi khc s khin bn thiu s cng quyt.