‫‪٥‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫ﺑﺴﻢ ﺍﷲ ﺍﻟﺮﲪﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﺣﻴﻢ‬

‫ﺍﳊﻤﺪ ﷲ ﻭﺣﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﻦ ﻻ ﻧﱯ ﺑﻌﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺃﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺑﻌﺪ‪:‬‬
‫ﻓﺈﻥ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﻃﻔﺎﻝ ﻓﻦ ﻭﻣﻬﺎﺭﺓ ﻻ ﻳﺘﻘﻨﻬﺎ ﺇﻻ ﺍﻟﻘﻠﻴﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﻗﺪ ﻛﺘﺐ ﰲ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻋﺸﺮﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﻜﺘﺐ ﻣﺎ ﺑﲔ ﻣﻄﻮﻝ ﻭﳐﺘﺼﺮ‪ ،‬ﻭﻗﺪ‬
‫ﺭﺃﻳﻨﺎ ﺃﻥ ﻧﺬﻛﺮ ﺧﻼﺻﺔ ﺑﻌﺾ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﻜﺘﺐ ﻭﻧﺮﺗﺒﻬﺎ ﰲ ﲨﻠﺔ ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻷﻓﻜﺎﺭ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﻓﻌﺔ‪ ،‬ﺍﻟﱵ ﻻ ﻳﺴﺘﻐﲏ ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﺍﻵﺑﺎﺀ ﻭﺍﳌﺮﺑﻮﻥ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ‬
‫ﺻﻐﺎﺭﻫﻢ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺳﻠﻴﻤﺔ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﻘﻴﺪﺓ‬
‫‪ -١‬ﻋﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻛﻠﻤﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺣﻴﺪ ﻭﻣﺎ ﺗﺘﻀﻤﻨﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻧﻔﻲ ﻭﺇﺛﺒﺎﺕ‪» ،‬ﻻ‬
‫ﺇﻟﻪ« ﻧﻔﻲ ﻷﻟﻮﻫﻴﺔ ﻏﲑ ﺍﷲ ‪» .‬ﺇﻻ ﺍﷲ« ﺇﺛﺒﺎ‪‬ﺎ ﷲ ﻭﺣﺪﻩ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢‬ﻋﺮﻓﻪ ﳌﺎﺫﺍ ﺧﻠﻘﻨﺎ ‪‬ﻭ‪‬ﻣ‪‬ﺎ ﺧ‪‬ﻠﹶﻘﹾﺖ‪ ‬ﺍﻟﹾﺠﹺﻦ‪ ‬ﻭ‪‬ﺍﻟﹾﺈﹺﻧ‪‬ﺲ‪ ‬ﺇﹺﻟﱠﺎ‬
‫ﻟ‪‬ﻴ‪‬ﻌ‪‬ﺒ‪‬ﺪ‪‬ﻭﻥ‪ .‬ﻣﻊ ﺇﺭﺷﺎﺩﻩ ﺇﱃ ﺍﳌﻌﲎ ﺍﻟﻮﺍﺳﻊ ﻟﻠﻌﺒﺎﺩﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣‬ﻻ ﺗﻜﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ ﲣﻮﻳﻔﻪ ﺑﺎﻟﻨﺎﺭ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﺬﺍﺏ ﻭﻏﻀﺐ ﺍﷲ ﻭﻋﻘﺎﺑﻪ‬
‫ﺣﱴ ﻻ ﻳﺮﺗﺒﻂ ﺫﻛﺮ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﻋﺰ ﻭﺟﻞ ﰲ ﺫﻫﻨﻪ ‪‬ﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺼﻮﺭ ﺍﳌﺮﻋﺒﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤‬ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﳛﺐ ﺍﷲ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ‪ ،‬ﻷﻧﻪ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﺧﻠﻘﻨﺎ ﻭﺭﺯﻗﻨﺎ ﻭﺃﻃﻌﻤﻨﺎ‬
‫ﻭﺳﻘﺎﻧﺎ ﻭﻛﺴﺎﻧﺎ ﻭﺟﻌﻠﻨﺎ ﻣﺴﻠﻤﲔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥‬ﺣﺬﺭﻩ ﻣﻦ ﻓﻌﻞ ﺍﻷﺧﻄﺎﺀ ﰲ ﺧﻠﻮﺗﻪ‪ ،‬ﻷﻥ ﺍﷲ ﻳﺮﺍﻩ ﰲ ﻛﻞ‬
‫ﺣﺎﻝ‪.‬‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪٦‬‬

‫‪ -٦‬ﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻌﺒﺎﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﱵ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﺫﻛﺮ ﺍﷲ ﻣﺜﻞ‪» :‬ﺑﺴﻢ ﺍﷲ« ﻋﻨﺪ‬

‫ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ ﻭﺍﻟﺸﺮﺍﺏ ﻭﺍﻟﺪﺧﻮﻝ ﻭﺍﳋﺮﻭﺝ ‪ .‬ﻭ»ﺍﳊﻤﺪ ﷲ«ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻻﻧﺘﻬﺎﺀ‬
‫ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ‪ ،‬ﻭ»ﺳﺒﺤﺎﻥ ﺍﷲ« ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﺘﻌﺠﺐ ﻭﻏﲑ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻌﺒﺎﺭﺍﺕ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧‬ﺣﺒﺐ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﰲ ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺮﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻜﺮﱘ ‪ ‬ﺑﺘﻌﻠﻴﻤﻪ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ‬
‫ﻣﻦ ﺻﻔﺎﺗﻪ ﺍﻟﻄﻴﺒﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﻗﺮﺍﺀﺓ ﺷﻲﺀ ﻣﻦ ﻗﺼﺺ ﺍﻟﺴﲑﺓ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻮﻳﺔ ﺃﻣﺎﻣﻪ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻛﻠﻤﺎ ﺫﻛﺮ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨‬ﺭﺳﺦ ﰲ ﺫﻫﻨﻪ ﻋﻘﻴﺪﺓ ﺍﻟﻘﻀﺎﺀ ﻭﺍﻟﻘﺪﺭ‪ ،‬ﻓﻤﺎ ﺷﺎﺀ ﺍﷲ ﻛﺎﻥ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﻣﺎ ﱂ ﻳﺸﺄ ﱂ ﻳﻜﻦ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩‬ﻋﺮﻑ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺃﺭﻛﺎﻥ ﺍﻹﳝﺎﻥ ﺍﻟﺴﺘﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠‬ﺍﻃﺮﺡ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﺳﺌﻠﺔ ﺍﳌﺘﻌﻠﻘﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻘﻴﺪﺓ ﻣﺜﻞ ‪ :‬ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺭﺑﻚ؟ ﻣﺎ ﺩﻳﻨﻚ؟ ﻣﻦ ﻧﺒﻴﻚ ‪‬؟ ﳌﺎﺫﺍ ﺧﻠﻘﻨﺎ؟ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺮﺯﻗﻨﺎ‬
‫ﻭﻳﻄﻌﻤﻨﺎ ﻭﻳﺴﻘﻴﻨﺎ ﻭﻳﺸﻔﻴﻨﺎ؟‬
‫ﻣﺎ ﺃﻗﺴﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺣﻴﺪ؟ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻙ ﻭﺍﻟﻜﻔﺮ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﻕ؟‬
‫ﻣﺎ ﻋﺎﻗﺒﺔ ﻛﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺍﳌﺸﺮﻙ ﻭﺍﻟﻜﺎﻓﺮ ﻭﺍﳌﻨﺎﻓﻖ؟ ﻭﻏﲑ ﺫﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﺒﺎﺩﺓ‬
‫‪ -١١‬ﻋﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺃﺭﻛﺎﻥ ﺍﻹﺳﻼﻡ ﺍﳋﻤﺴﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ‪» :‬ﻣﺮﻭﺍ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻛﻢ ﺑﺎﻟﺼﻼﺓ ﻟﺴﺒﻊ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﺍﺿﺮﺑﻮﻫﻢ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﺎ ﻟﻌﺸﺮ«‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٣‬ﺍﺻﻄﺤﺐ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺇﱃ ﺍﳌﺴﺎﺟﺪ ﻭﻋﻠﻤﻪ ﻛﻴﻒ ﻳﺘﻮﺿﺄ‪.‬‬
 ‫‪٧‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫‪ -١٤‬ﻋﺮﻓﻪ ﺁﺩﺍﺏ ﺍﳌﺴﺎﺟﺪ ﻭﺍﺣﺘﺮﺍﻣﻬﺎ ﻭﻗﺪﺳﻴﺘﻬﺎ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -١٥‬ﺩﺭﺑﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﻴﺎﻡ ﺣﱴ ﻳﺘﻌﻮﺩﻩ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﻜﱪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٦‬ﺷﺠﻊ ﻃﻔﻠﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﻔﻆ ﻣﺎ ﺗﻴﺴﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ ﻭﺍﻷﺣﺎﺩﻳﺚ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻮﻳﺔ ﻭﺍﻷﺫﻛﺎﺭ ﺍﻟﺼﺤﻴﺤﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٧‬ﻛﺎﻓﺊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻛﻠﻤﺎ ﺗﻘﺪﻡ ﰲ ﺍﳊﻔﻆ ‪ .‬ﻗﺎﻝ ﺇﺑﺮﺍﻫﻴﻢ ﺑﻦ‬
‫ﺃﺩﻫﻢ‪ .‬ﻗﺎﻝ ﱄ ﺃﰊ ‪" :‬ﻳﺎ ﺑﲏ ﺍﻃﻠﺐ ﺍﳊﺪﻳﺚ‪ ،‬ﻓﻜﻠﻤﺎ ﲰﻌﺖ ﺣﺪﻳﺜﺎﹰ‬
‫ﻭﺣﻔﻈﺘﻪ ﻓﻠﻚ ﺩﺭﻫﻢ" ﻗﺎﻝ ‪ :‬ﻓﻄﻠﺒﺖ ﺍﳊﺪﻳﺚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻫﺬﺍ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٨‬ﻻ ﺗﺮﻫﻖ ﻭﻟﺪﻙ ﺑﻜﺜﺮﺓ ﺍﳊﻔﻆ ﻭﺍﳌﺪﺍﺭﺳﺔ ﺣﱴ ﻻ ﻳﻌﺘﱪ ﺫﻟﻚ‬
‫ﻋﻘﺎﺑﺎ ﻓﻴﻜﺮﻩ ﺣﻔﻆ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٩‬ﺍﻋﻠﻢ ﺃﻧﻚ ﻗﺪﻭﺓ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ‪ ،‬ﻓﺈﺫﺍ ‪‬ﺎﻭﻧﺖ ﺑﺎﻟﻌﺒﺎﺩﺓ ﺃﻭ‬
‫ﺗﻜﺎﺳﻠﺖ ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﻭﺗﺜﺎﻗﻠﺖ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﻘﻴﺎﻡ ‪‬ﺎ‪ ،‬ﺗﺄﺛﺮ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺅﻙ ﺑﻚ ﰲ ﺫﻟﻚ‬
‫ﻭﺍﺳﺘﺜﻘﻠﻮﺍ ﺍﻟﻌﺒﺎﺩﺓ ﻭﺭﲟﺎ ‪‬ﺮﺑﻮﺍ ﻣﻨﻬﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٠‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﺪﻗﺔ ﻭﺍﻹﻧﻔﺎﻕ‪ ،‬ﺑﺄﻥ ﺗﺘﺼﺪﻕ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﹰﺎ‬
‫ﻭﻫﻮ ﻳﺮﺍﻙ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﺗﻌﻄﻴﻪ ﻣﺎ ﻳﺘﺼﺪﻕ ﺑﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻓﻘﲑ ﺃﻭ ﺳﺎﺋﻞ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻷﻓﻀﻞ ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺮﻏﺒﻪ ﰲ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺘﺼﺪﻕ ﻣﻦ ﻣﺎﻟﻪ ﺍﳋﺎﺹ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﺪﺧﺮﻩ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻷﺧﻼﻕ‬
‫‪ -٢١‬ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﺭﺩﺕ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺻﺎﺩﻗﺎﹰ‪ ،‬ﻓﻼ ﺗﺰﺭﻉ ﰲ ﻧﻔﺴﻪ‬
‫ﺍﳋﻮﻑ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٢‬ﺍﺻﺪﻕ ﺃﻧﺖ ﺃﻭﻻﹰ ﺣﱴ ﻳﺘﻌﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻣﻨﻚ ﺍﻟﺼﺪﻕ‪.‬‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪٨‬‬

‫‪ -٢٣‬ﺍﺷﺮﺡ ﻟﻪ ﻓﻀﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﺼﺪﻕ ﻭﺍﻷﻣﺎﻧﺔ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -٢٤‬ﺍﺧﺘﱪ ﺃﻣﺎﻧﺔ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺸﻌﺮﻩ ﺑﺬﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٥‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﱪ ﻭﻋﺪﻡ ﺍﻻﺳﺘﻌﺠﺎﻝ ﻭﳝﻜﻨﻚ ﺫﻟﻚ‬
‫ﻣﻦ ﺧﻼﻝ ﺗﺪﺭﻳﺒﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﻴﺎﻡ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﳑﺎﺭﺳﺔ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﻋﻤﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﱵ ﲢﺘﺎﺝ‬
‫ﺇﱃ ﺻﱪ ﻭﺗﺄﻥ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٦‬ﺍﻋﺪﻝ ﺑﲔ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ؛ ﻓﺈﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻓﻀﻞ ﻭﺳﻴﻠﺔ ﻟﺘﻌﻠﻴﻤﻪ ﺧﻠﻖ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﺪﻝ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٧‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺧﻠﻖ ﺍﻹﻳﺜﺎﺭ ﻣﻦ ﺧﻼﻝ ﻣﻮﺍﻗﻒ ﻋﻤﻠﻴﺔ‪،‬‬
‫ﺃﻭ ﻣﻦ ﺧﻼﻝ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﻘﺼﺺ ﺍﻟﱵ ﺗﺘﻨﺎﻭﻝ ﻓﻀﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻹﻳﺜﺎﺭ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٨‬ﺃﻭﺿﺢ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﺍﻟﻨﺘﺎﺋﺞ ﺍﻟﺴﻠﺒﻴﺔ ﺍﳌﺘﺮﺗﺒﺔ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﳋﺪﺍﻉ ﻭﺍﻟﻐﺶ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﺴﺮﻗﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﻜﺬﺏ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٢٩‬ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﻇﻬﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺷﺠﺎﻋﺔ ﰲ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﳌﻮﺍﻗﻒ‪ ،‬ﻓﺎﻣﺪﺣﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﺫﻟﻚ ﻭﻛﺎﻓﺌﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﺑﲔ ﻟﻪ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﺸﺠﺎﻋﺔ ﻫﻲ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﻌﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺻﺤﻴﺢ‬
‫ﻭﺿﺮﻭﺭﻱ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٠‬ﻻ ﺗﻜﻦ ﻗﺎﺳﻴﺎ ﻓﺘﺪﻓﻌﻪ ﺇﱃ ﺍﳋﻮﻑ ﻭﺍﻟﻜﺬﺏ ﻭﺍﳉﱭ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣١‬ﺣﺒﺐ ﺇﻟﻴﻪ ﺧﻠﻖ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺍﺿﻊ ﻭﺍﻟﻠﲔ ﻭﺗﺮﻙ ﺍﻟﻜﱪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٢‬ﻋﻠﻤﻪ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻳﺘﻔﺎﺿﻠﻮﻥ ﺑﺎﻟﺘﻘﻮﻯ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﺍﻟﺼﺎﱀ‪ ،‬ﻻ‬
‫ﺑﺎﻷﻧﺴﺎﺏ ﻭﺍﻷﺣﺴﺎﺏ ﻭﺍﻷﻣﻮﺍﻝ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٣‬ﻋﻠﻤﻪ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻈﻠﻢ ﻣﺮﺗﻌﻪ ﻭﺧﻴﻢ‪ ،‬ﻭﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﺒﻐﻲ ﻳﺼﺮﻉ ﺃﻫﻠﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﺃﻥ‬
‫ﺍﳋﻴﺎﻧﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﺩ ﻟﻠﻬﻼﻙ‪.‬‬
 ‫‪٩‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫‪ -٣٤‬ﻋﻠﻤﻪ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﻭﻕ ﺑﲔ ﺍﻷﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﱵ ﻗﺪ ﲣﻔﻰ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ‪ ،‬ﻛﺎﻟﻔﺮﻕ‬

‫ﺑﲔ ﺍﻟﺸﺠﺎﻋﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻬﻮﺭ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﻔﺮﻕ ﺑﲔ ﺍﳊﻴﺎﺀ ﻭﺍﳋﺠﻞ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﻔﺮﻕ ﺑﲔ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺘﻮﺍﺿﻊ ﻭﺍﳌﺬﻟﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﻔﺮﻕ ﺑﲔ ﺍﻟﺬﻛﺎﺀ ﻭﺍﳌﺨﺎﺩﻋﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٥‬ﻋﻮﺩ ﺃﻭﻻﺩﻙ ﺍﻟﻜﺮﻡ‪ ،‬ﺑﺄﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻛﺮﳝﺎ ﰲ ﺑﻴﺘﻚ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎﺫﻻﹰ‬
‫ﻣﻌﺮﻭﻓﻚ ﻟﻐﲑﻙ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٦‬ﻻ ﲣﻠﻒ ﻭﻋﺪﻙ ﺃﺑﺪﺍﹰ ﻭﲞﺎﺻﺔ ﻣﻊ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ‪ ،‬ﻓﺈﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻳﺮﺳﺦ‬
‫ﰲ ﻧﻔﻮﺳﻬﻢ ﻓﻀﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﻮﻓﺎﺀ ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻬﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺴﻠﻮﻙ ﻭﺍﻵﺩﺍﺏ‬
‫‪ -٣٧‬ﺍﻟﻖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٨‬ﻻ ﺗﺘﺴﺎﻫﻞ ﰲ ﻛﺸﻒ ﺍﻟﻌﻮﺭﺓ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٣٩‬ﺃﺣﺴﻦ ﺇﱃ ﺟﲑﺍﻧﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٠‬ﻋﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺣﻘﻮﻕ ﺍﳉﺎﺭ ﻭﺧﻄﻮﺭﺓ ﺇﻳﺬﺍﺋﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤١‬ﺑﺮ ﻭﺍﻟﺪﻳﻚ‪ ،‬ﻭﺻﻞ ﺃﺭﺣﺎﻣﻚ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﺻﻄﺤﺐ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻙ ﻣﻌﻚ ﰲ‬
‫ﺫﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٢‬ﺃﺧﱪ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻙ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﳛﺒﻮﻥ ﺍﻟﻄﻔﻞ ﺍﳌﻬﺬﺏ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻻ‬
‫ﻳﺆﺫﻱ ﺍﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٣‬ﺍﻛﺘﺐ ﺭﺳﺎﻟﺔ ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﺗﺘﻀﻤﻦ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻵﺩﺍﺏ ﻭﺍﻟﻨﺼﺎﺋﺢ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﻮﺻﺎﻳﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٤‬ﻭﺿﺢ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﺃﻥ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﺴﻠﻮﻛﻴﺎﺕ ﻣﺮﻓﻮﺿﺔ ﲤﺎﻣﺎﹰ‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪١٠‬‬

‫ﻭﺍﺫﻛﺮ ﳍﻢ ﺃﺳﺒﺎﺏ ﺫﻟﻚ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -٤٥‬ﺍﺟﻠﺲ ﻣﻊ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﻭﺍﻗﺮﺃ ﻛﻞ ﻣﺮﺓ ﻋﻦ ﺃﺩﺏ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻵﺩﺍﺏ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻮﻳﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﺳﺄﳍﻢ ﻣﺎﺫﺍ ﺍﺳﺘﻔﺎﺩﻭﺍ‪ ،‬ﻭﳝﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﲡﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﻘﺮﺃ ﻭﺃﻧﺖ‬
‫ﺗﺴﻤﻊ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٦‬ﺍﻧﺼﺢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺳﺮﺍ ﻭﻻ ﺗﻌﺎﻗﺒﻪ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﺍﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٧‬ﻻ ﺗﻜﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻮﻡ ﻣﺎ ﺍﺳﺘﻄﻌﺖ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٨‬ﺍﺳﺘﺄﺫﻥ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻟﺪﺧﻮﻝ‪ ،‬ﻓﺈﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻓﻀﻞ ﻭﺳﻴﻠﺔ‬
‫ﻟﺘﻌﻠﻴﻤﻪ ﺍﻻﺳﺘﺌﺬﺍﻥ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٤٩‬ﻻ ﺗﺘﻮﻗﻊ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻔﻬﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻣﺎ ﺗﺮﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻭﻝ ﻣﺮﺓ ‪‬ﻭ‪‬ﺃﹾﻣ‪‬ﺮ‪‬‬
‫ﺃﹶﻫ‪‬ﻠﹶﻚ‪ ‬ﺑﹺﺎﻟﺼ‪‬ﻠﹶﺎﺓ‪ ‬ﻭ‪‬ﺍﺻ‪‬ﻄﹶﺒﹺﺮ‪ ‬ﻋ‪‬ﻠﹶﻴ‪‬ﻬ‪‬ﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٠‬ﻻ ﺗﻨﺲ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺴﻤﻲ ﺍﷲ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ ﺑﺼﻮﺕ ﻣﺴﻤﻮﻉ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﻛﺬﻟﻚ ﺃﻥ ﲢﻤﺪ ﺍﷲ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥١‬ﲡﺎﻫﻞ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺃﺧﻄﺎﺀ ﻭﻟﺪﻙ‪ ،‬ﻭﻻ ﲡﻌﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺪﺭﻙ ﺧﺰﺍﻧﺔ‬
‫ﳊﻔﻆ ﺍﻷﺧﻄﺎﺀ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٢‬ﺍﻋﺘﺬﺭ ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﳐﻄﺌﺎﹰ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٣‬ﺷﺠﻊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺘﻤﻴﺰ ﻭﻗﻞ ﻟﻪ‪ :‬ﺃﻋﺮﻑ ﺃﻧﻚ ﻭﻟﺪ ﻣﺘﻤﻴﺰ‬
‫ﻭﺗﺴﺘﻄﻴﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﻌﻞ ﺫﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٤‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﺷﻴﺌﺎﹰ ﻣﻦ ﺍﳋﺼﻮﺻﻴﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٥‬ﻻ ﺗﺴﺨﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻛﻼﻡ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺃﻭ ﻣﻦ ﺗﺼﺮﻓﺎﺗﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪١١‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫‪ -٥٦‬ﻋﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﺒﺎﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﺘﻬﻨﺌﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺮﺣﻴﺐ ﻭﺍ‪‬ﺎﻣﻼﺕ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -٥٧‬ﻻ ﺗﺒﺎﻟﻎ ﰲ ﺗﺪﻟﻴﻞ ﻭﻟﺪﻙ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٨‬ﻻ ﺗﻌﻮﺩ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻹﻏﺮﺍﺀ ﺍﳌﺎﺩﻱ ﳊﺜﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻓﻌﻞ ﺃﻣﺮ ﻣﺎ‪،‬‬
‫ﻓﺈﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻳﻀﻌﻒ ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺘﻪ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﺍﳌﺎﺩﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٥٩‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺻﺪﻳﻘﻚ ﺭﻗﻢ )‪.(١‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﳉﺴﺪﻱ‬
‫‪ -٦٠‬ﺃﹶﺗ‪‬ﺢ‪ ‬ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﻭﻗﺘﺎ ﻛﺎﻓﻴﺎ ﻟﻠﻌﺐ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦١‬ﻭﻓﺮ ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﺍﻷﻟﻌﺎﺏ ﺍﳌﻔﻴﺪﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٢‬ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﳜﺘﺎﺭ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺃﻟﻌﺎﺑﻪ ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٣‬ﻋﻠﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺍﻟﺴﺒﺎﺣﺔ ﻭﺍﳉﺮﻱ ﻭﺑﻌﺾ ﺃﻟﻌﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﻘﻮﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٤‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﻔﻮﺯ ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎﹰ ﰲ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﻟﻌﺎﺏ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٥‬ﻭﻓﺮ ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﻏﺬﺍﺀ ﻣﺘﻮﺍﺯﻧﺎﹰ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٦‬ﺍﻫﺘﻢ ﺑﺘﻨﻈﻴﻢ ﻭﺟﺒﺎﺕ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٧‬ﺣﺬﺭ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻹﻓﺮﺍﻁ ﰲ ﺗﻨﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻷﻃﻌﻤﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٨‬ﻻ ﲢﺎﺳﺐ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﺧﻄﺎﺋﻪ ﺃﺛﻨﺎﺀ ﺗﻨﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٦٩‬ﺍﺻﻨﻊ ﺍﻟﻄﻌﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﳛﺒﻪ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎﹰ‪.‬‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪١٢‬‬

‫ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺴﻲ‬
‫‪ -٧٠‬ﺍﺳﺘﻤﻊ ﻻﺑﻨﻚ ﺟﻴﺪﺍﹰ ﻭﺍﻫﺘﻢ ﺑﻜﻞ ﻛﻠﻤﺔ ﻳﻘﻮﳍﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧١‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﻮﺍﺟﻪ ﻣﺸﻜﻼﺗﻪ ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﳝﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻘﺪﻡ ﻟﻪ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﻮﻥ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺸﻌﺮ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٢‬ﺍﺣﺘﺮﻡ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻭﺍﺷﻜﺮﻩ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﺟﺎﺩ ﻋﻤﻼﹰ ﻣﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٣‬ﻻ ﺗﻠﺠﺊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺇﱃ ﺍﳊﻠﻒ‪ ،‬ﺑﻞ ﻗﻞ ﻟﻪ‪ :‬ﺇﱐ ﻣﺼﺪﻗﻚ ﺩﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺃﻥ ﲢﻠﻒ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٤‬ﲡﻨﺐ ﻋﺒﺎﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﺘﻬﺪﻳﺪ ﻭﺍﻟﻮﻋﻴﺪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٥‬ﻻ ﺷﻌﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺑﺄﻧﻪ ﺷﺨﺺ ﺳﻴﺊ ﺃﻭ ﻏﱯ ﻻ ﻳﻔﻬﻢ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٦‬ﻻ ﺗﻀﺠﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺜﺮﺓ ﺃﺳﺌﻠﺔ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ‪ ،‬ﻭﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻥ ﲡﻴﺐ ﻋﻦ‬
‫ﻛﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻳﺴﺄﻝ ﻋﻨﻪ ﺑﺈﺟﺎﺑﺎﺕ ﺑﺴﻴﻄﺔ ﻭﻣﻘﻨﻌﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٧‬ﺿﻢ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺇﱃ ﺻﺪﺭﻙ ﻭﺃﺷﻌﺮﻩ ﺑﺎﳊﺐ ﻭﺍﳊﻨﺎﻥ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٨‬ﺍﺳﺘﺸﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﰲ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ ﻭﺍﻋﻤﻞ ﲟﺸﻮﺭﺗﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٧٩‬ﺃﺷﻌﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺑﻘﺪﺭ ﻣﻦ ﺍﳊﺮﻳﺔ ﰲ ﺍﲣﺎﺫ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺍﺭﺍﺕ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻲ‬
‫‪ -٨٠‬ﺳﺠﻞ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻙ ﰲ ﺍﳌﺮﺍﻛﺰ ﺍﻟﺼﻴﻔﻴﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺣﻠﻘﺎﺕ ﲢﻔﻴﻆ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﳌﺴﺎﺑﻘﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻌﻠﻤﻴﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﳌﻌﺴﻜﺮﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﻜﺸﻔﻴﺔ ﻭﻏﲑ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻷﻧﺸﻄﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪١٣‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫‪ -٨١‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺘﻮﱃ ﺇﻛﺮﺍﻡ ﺍﻟﻀﻴﻮﻑ ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻪ ﻛﺄﻥ ﻳﻘﺪﻡ ﳍﻢ‬

‫ﺍﻟﺸﺎﻱ ﻭﺍﻟﻘﻬﻮﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﻔﺎﻛﻬﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٢‬ﺭﺣﺐ ﺑﺎﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻳﺪﺧﻞ ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﻭﺃﻧﺖ ﻣﻊ ﺃﺻﺪﻗﺎﺋﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٣‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺸﺎﺭﻙ ﰲ ﺃﻧﺸﻄﺔ ﺍﳌﺴﺠﺪ ﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻴﺔ ﻣﺜﻞ‪:‬‬
‫ﺻﻨﺪﻭﻕ ﺭﻋﺎﻳﺔ ﺍﻷﻳﺘﺎﻡ ﻭﺍﻷﺭﺍﻣﻞ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٤‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﺒﻴﻊ ﻭﺍﻟﺸﺮﺍﺀ ﻭﺍﻟﻜﺴﺐ ﺍﳊﻼﻝ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٥‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺴﺘﺸﻌﺮ ﺁﻻﻡ ﺍﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎﹰ‪ ،‬ﻭﳛﺎﻭﻝ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺘﺨﻔﻴﻒ ﻋﻨﻬﻢ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٦‬ﻻ ﲡﻌﻞ ﻭﻟﺪﻙ ﳛﻤﻞ ﳘﻮﻡ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﱂ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٧‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺮﻯ ﲦﺎﺭ ﻋﻤﻠﻚ ﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻲ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٨‬ﺃﺭﺳﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻟﻘﻀﺎﺀ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﳊﺎﺟﺎﺕ ﻭﺃﺷﻌﺮﻩ ﺑﺜﻘﺘﻚ ﻓﻴﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٨٩‬ﻻ ﲤﺎﻧﻊ ﰲ ﺃﻥ ﳜﺘﺎﺭ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺃﺻﺪﻗﺎﺀﻩ ﺑﻨﻔﺴﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﳝﻜﻨﻚ ﺃﻥ‬
‫ﲡﻌﻠﻪ ﳜﺘﺎﺭ ﻣﻦ ﺗﺮﻳﺪ ﺃﻧﺖ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺸﻌﺮﻩ ﺑﺬﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﺼﺤﻲ‬
‫‪ -٩٠‬ﺍﻫﺘﻢ ﺑﺼﺤﺔ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩١‬ﻻ ‪‬ﻤﻞ ﺍﻟﺘﻄﻌﻴﻤﺎﺕ ﰲ ﺃﻭﻗﺎ‪‬ﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٢‬ﻻ ﺗﺒﺎﻟﻎ ﰲ ﺇﻋﻄﺎﺀ ﺍﻷﺩﻭﻳﺔ ﺇﻻ ﺑﺎﻟﻘﺪﺭ ﺍﳌﺴﻤﻮﺡ ﺑﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٣‬ﺍﺭﻕ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺑﺎﻟﺮﻗﻰ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻋﻴﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪١٤‬‬

‫‪ -٩٤‬ﻋﻮﺩ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻙ ﺍﻟﻨﻮﻡ ﻣﺒﻜﺮﺍﹰ ﻭﺍﻻﺳﺘﻴﻘﺎﻅ ﻣﺒﻜﺮﺍﹰ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -٩٥‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﻬﺘﻢ ﺑﻨﻈﺎﻓﺔ ﺑﺪﻧﻪ ﻭﺃﺳﻨﺎﻧﻪ ﻭﺛﻴﺎﺑﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٦‬ﻻ ﺗﻨﺘﻈﺮ ﺣﱴ ﻳﺴﺘﻔﺤﻞ ﺍﳌﺮﺽ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٧‬ﺃﺑﻌﺪ ﺃﺑﻨﺎﺀﻙ ﻋﻦ ﺍﳌﺼﺎﺑﲔ ﺑﺄﻣﺮﺍﺽ ﻣﻌﺪﻳﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٨‬ﻻ ﺗﺸﻌﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﲞﻄﻮﺭﺓ ﻣﺮﺿﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -٩٩‬ﺍﳉﺄ ﺇﱃ ﺍﷲ ﻓﻬﻮ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﺑﻴﺪﻩ ﺍﻟﺸﻔﺎﺀ ﻣﻦ ﲨﻴﻊ ﺍﻷﺩﻭﺍﺀ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﺜﻘﺎﰲ‬
‫‪ -١٠٠‬ﺍﻃﺮﺡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﻟﻐﺎﺯ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠١‬ﺍﻃﻠﺐ ﻣﻨﻪ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﺔ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﳌﻮﺿﻮﻋﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺘﻌﺒﲑﻳﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٢‬ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻘﺮﺃ ﻣﺎ ﻳﻜﺘﺒﻪ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٣‬ﻻ ﺗﺘﻮﻗﻒ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﻛﻞ ﺧﻄﺄ ﳓﻮﻱ ﺃﻭ ﻟﻐﻮﻱ ﻳﻘﻊ ﻓﻴﻪ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٤‬ﺷﺠﻊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺍﺀﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٥‬ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﳜﺘﺎﺭ ﺍﻟﻜﺘﺐ ﻭﺍﻟﻘﺼﺺ ﺍﻟﱵ ﻳﺮﻳﺪ ﻗﺮﺍﺀ‪‬ﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٦‬ﺷﺎﺭﻙ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﰲ ﻗﺮﺍﺀﺓ ﺷﻲﺀ ﻣﺎ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٧‬ﺃﺣﻀﺮ ﻷﺑﻨﺎﺋﻚ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺃﻟﻌﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﺬﻛﺎﺀ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٨‬ﺍﺩﻓﻊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻟﻠﻨﺠﺎﺡ ﺍﻟﺪﺭﺍﺳﻲ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٩‬ﺍﺟﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺘﻐﻠﺐ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺒﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﱵ ﲢﻮﻝ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺗﻔﻮﻗﻪ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺪﺭﺍﺳﻲ‪.‬‬
‫‪١٥‬‬ ‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬

‫‪ -١١٠‬ﺷﺠﻊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﻔﻆ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺃﺷﻌﺎﺭ ﺍﳌﺘﻘﺪﻣﲔ‬

‫ﻭﺍﳌﺘﺄﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻭﺣﻜﻤﻬﻢ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١١‬ﺷﺠﻌﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﻔﻆ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻷﻣﺜﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻔﺼﻴﺤﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٢‬ﺩﺭﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻓﻨﻮﻥ ﺍﳋﻄﺎﺑﺔ ﻭﺍﻹﻟﻘﺎﺀ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٣‬ﺩﺭﺑﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻓﻨﻮﻥ ﺍﳊﻮﺍﺭ ﻭﺍﻹﻗﻨﺎﻉ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٤‬ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻳﺸﺎﺭﻙ ﰲ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﺕ ﺗﻨﻤﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻘﺪﺭﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﺬﺍﺗﻴﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٥‬ﺷﺠﻊ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺇﺗﻘﺎﻥ ﻟﻐﺔ ﺃﺟﻨﺒﻴﺔ ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺭﺓ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻟﺜﻮﺍﺏ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺏ‬
‫‪ -١١٦‬ﺍﺳﺘﺨﺪﻡ ﺃﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﺍﻟﺜﻮﺍﺏ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺏ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٧‬ﻛﺎﻓﺊ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎﹰ ﻭﻻ ﺗﻌﺎﻗﺐ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎﹰ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٨‬ﻧﻮ‪‬ﻉ ﰲ ﺃﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﺍﳌﻜﺎﻓﺄﺓ ﲝﻴﺚ ﻻ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺍﳌﻜﺎﻓﺄﺓ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎ‬
‫ﻣﺎﻟﻴﺔ‪ ،‬ﺑﻞ ﳝﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺭﺣﻠﺔ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﺡ ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻌﺐ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻜﻤﺒﻴﻮﺗﺮ‪،‬‬
‫ﺃﻭ ﻫﺪﻳﺔ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﺍﳋﺮﻭﺝ ﻣﻊ ﺻﺪﻳﻖ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١١٩‬ﻧﻮﻉ ﰲ ﺃﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺏ‪ ،‬ﻭﻻ ﻳﻜﻦ ﺍﻟﻀﺮﺏ ﻫﻮ‬
‫ﺍﻷﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﺍﳌﻔﻀﻞ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ‪ ،‬ﻓﻬﻨﺎﻙ ﺍﻟﻨﻈﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﻐﺎﺿﺒﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﺰﺟﺮ ﺑﺎﻟﻘﻮﻝ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﺍﳍﺠﺮ ﻣﺪﺓ ﻣﻌﻴﻨﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﳊﺮﻣﺎﻥ ﻣﻦ ﺟﺰﺀ ﻣﻦ ﺍﳌﺼﺮﻭﻑ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻣﻲ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻨﺰﻫﺔ ﺍﻷﺳﺒﻮﻋﻴﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٠٢‬ﺍﻋﻠﻢ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺏ ﺍﳌﻨﺎﺳﺐ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﳝﻨﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺗﻜﺮﺍﺭ‬
‫ﺍﳋﻄﺄ ﻭﻳﺪﻓﻊ ﺇﱃ ﺍﻟﺼﻮﺍﺏ‪.‬‬
‫‪ ١٣٠‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﰲ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻷﺑﻨﺎﺀ‬ ‫‪١٦‬‬

‫‪ -١٢١‬ﺗﺬﻛﺮ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﱯ ‪ ‬ﻣﺎ ﺿﺮﺏ ﻏﻼﻣﺎﹰ ﻗﻂ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -١٢٢‬ﻻ ﺗﻌﺎﻗﺐ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻭﻝ ﻣﺮﺓ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٣‬ﻻ ﺗﻜﻦ ﻗﺎﺳﻴﺎ ﰲ ﻋﻘﺎﺑﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٤‬ﺇﺫﺍ ﻋﺎﻗﺒﺖ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻓﺎﺷﺮﺡ ﻟﻪ ﺳﺒﺐ ﻋﻘﺎﺑﻚ ﻟﻪ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٥‬ﻻ ﲡﻌﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻳﺸﻌﺮ ﺑﺄﻧﻚ ﺗﺘﻠﺬﺫ ﺑﻌﻘﺎﺑﻪ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﲢﻤﻞ ﻟﻪ‬
‫ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻀﻐﻴﻨﺔ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٦‬ﻻ ﺗﻀﺮﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻭﻻ ﺗﻀﺮﺑﻪ ﺃﺛﻨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻐﻀﺐ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٧‬ﻻ ﺗﻀﺮﺏ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻭﺟﻬﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﻻ ﺗﺮﻓﻊ ﻳﺪﻙ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻼﺯﻡ ﺣﱴ ﻻ ﻳﺘﻀﺎﻋﻒ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺍﻷﱂ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٨‬ﻻ ﺗﻀﺮﺏ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻭﻋﺪﻙ ﺑﻌﺪﻡ ﺍﻟﻀﺮﺏ‪ ،‬ﺣﱴ ﻻ ﻳﻔﻘﺪ ﺛﻘﺘﻪ‬
‫ﻓﻴﻚ‪.‬‬
‫‪ -١٢٩‬ﺃﺷﻌﺮ ﺍﺑﻨﻚ ﺑﺄﻧﻚ ﺗﻌﺎﻗﺒﻪ ﳌﺼﻠﺤﺘﻪ ﻭﺃﻥ ﺣﺒﻚ ﻟﻪ ﻳﺪﻋﻮﻙ‬
‫ﻟﺬﻟﻚ‪.‬‬
‫ﻓﻘﺴﺎ ﻟﻴﺰﺩﺟﺮﻭﺍ ﻭﻣـﻦ ﻳـﻚ‪ ‬ﺣﺎﺯﻣـﺎ‬
‫ﻓﻠــﻴﻘﺲ‪ ‬ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧــﺎﹰ ﻋﻠــﻰ ﻣــﻦ ﻳــﺮﺣﻢ‬
‫‪ -١٣٠‬ﻋﻠﻤﻪ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺏ ﱂ ﻳﺸﺮﻉ ﻟﻠﺘﻌﺬﻳﺐ‪ ،‬ﻭﺇﳕﺎ ﺷﺮﻉ‬
‫ﻟﻠﺘﺄﺩﻳﺐ‪.‬‬
‫ﻧﺴﺄﻝ ﺍﷲ ﺍﳍﺪﺍﻳﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻮﻓﻴﻖ ﻭﺍﻟﺴﺪﺍﺩ ﻭﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﷲ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻧﺒﻴﻨﺎ‬
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