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@b pfrt bl tnms obba kfy
kfy od
rdprbhuedh m` f`y lbrk wmtnbut wrmttd` pdrkmssmb`
lrbk tnd futnbr. Lbr tdcdvmsmb` rmints f`h lurtndr
m`lbrkftmb`, pcdfsd eb`tfet7
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Updetftbr fs f km`h rdfhdr nfs tb od b`d bl ky lfvburmtd pcbts/
prdsd`tftmb`s wmtnm` kd`tfcmsk.
kd`tfcmsk. Ml ybu ef` imvd tnd spdetftbr
tnd fomcmty tb rdpcmeftd wnft mt ms tnft wd frd hbm`i, tndy wmcc od
kfhd tb lddc spdemfc f`h u`mqud, wnmen, lbr kd ftcdfst, ms f nuid
pfrt bl wnft M fmk lbr wnd`dvdr M pdrlbrk.

Mt nfs odd` hmseussdh m` tnd pfst oy btndrs, out f nuid tnm`i


fobut spdetftbr fs f km`h rdfhdr ms erdhmomcmty1 m` nfvm`i f
spdetftbr rdfh ybur km`h, mt obbsts erdhmomcmty b` wnft ybu frd
hbm`i. Erdhmomcmty kfy `bt od f tnm`i tnft ybu fmk lbr m` ybur
kd`tfcmsk (oy tnms M fk rdldrrm`i tb nfvm`i ybur pdrlbrkf`ed
 od odcmdvdh tb od f id`um`d
id`um`d hmspcfy bl km`h
km`h rdfhm`i, `bt trmeas),
trmeas),
 out rdifrhcdss, mt ms f vdry \D_] pbwdrluc
pbwdrluc pcbt. Unbuch f
spdetftbr fcsb od pdrlbrkm`i tnd fomcmty tnft ybu”rd hmspcfym`i,
nbw ebuch sbkdb`d hd`bu`ed mt fs lfcsd2

Cdt”s tfad f cbba ft tnms lrbk f`btndr pdrspdetmvd - nbw wbuch


 ybu lddc2 F pdrsb`, wnbk
wnbk ybu”vd pbtd`tmfccy
pbtd`tmfccy `dvdr kdt
kdt odlbrd,
nfs fpprbfendh ybu f`h ecfmkdh tb od focd tb rdfh ybur km`h.
 wmtn tndmr hdkb`strftmb`s,
hdkb`strftmb`s, tndy nfvd
nfvd prbvd` tnms trud,
trud, a`bwm`i
prmvftd hdtfmcs fobut ybur cmld, fs wdcc fs a`bwm`i u`hdr tdst
eb`hmtmb`s tnd dxfet tnbuint tnft cmds m` ybur ndfh ft f spdemlme
pbm`t. Xnms lmiurd tnd` ecfmks tnft ybu tbb ef` hb tnd sfkd.
kbkd`ts cftdr, ybu nfvd sbkdnbw rdfh tnd km`h bl tnms km`h
rdfhdr, tdccm`i nmk nms pm` ebhd, wnmen nd eb`lmrks tb od ebrrdet
e brrdet
(f`h nfs prbbl m` wrmtm`i odlbrd ybu f``bu`ed ybur tnbuint
fcbuh). Nbwdvdr, ybu nfvd @B (br vdry cmttcd) mhdf dxfetcy nbw
 ybu hmh mt - ybu gust a`dw!
a`dw! Xnms ms pbwdrluc
pbwdrluc stull!

Zdrsb`fccy, M strmvd lbr fcc bl ky kftdrmfc tb od fs ecdf` f`h lfmr


fs pbssmocd, kfam`i cbimefc sd`sd. Xnd suotcdty lbccbwm`i wmcc
hmrdet ybu b` nbw tb erdftd tnd mccusmb` tnft tnd spdetftbr nfs
rdfh tnd km`h bl f`btndr, br dvd` rdfh ybur km`h. Xnd mhdfs frd
sbkdwnft smkmcfr tb ky Zf`hbrf
ky Zf`hbrf tden`mqud,
 tden`mqud, nbwdvdr ybu hb
`bt rdqumrd a`bwcdhid bl Zf`hbrf
bl Zf`hbrf tb  tb od focd tb cdfr` f`h
pdrlbrk tnms.

Mt nfs prbofocy erbssdh ybur km`h fs tb wny tnms ms efccdh


Zrbkdtndus. M fcwfys nfh f lfsem`ftmb` wmtn kytns f`h
Cdid`hs. Ymtn ky hdout obbacdt odm`i „Zf`hbrf” fltdr
Zf`hbrf”s Obx, mt ldct b`cy rmint tb fcsb lmt tnms wmtnm` tnft
tndkd.
Zrbkdtndus wfs f tmtf`, wnb wbuch stdfc lmrd lrbk tnd ibhs,
f`h imvd mt tb nukf`s. Ymtn tnms tden`mqud, tnd pdrlbrkdr ms
imvm`i tnd spdetftbr tnd fomcmty tb rdfh f km`h tbb. Xndrd”s f
cbimefc eb``detmb`.

Odlbrd wd odim`, M”h cmad tb erdhmt Zdtdr Xur`dr, f) lbr m`spmrm`i


kd tb idt stfrtdh m`tb kd`tfcmsk1 f`h o) lbr nms m`erdhmocd
tnm`am`i, wnmen tnd lbccbwm`i stdks lrbk.

 Ymtnbut lurtndr fhb,


fhb, cdt us idt m`tb cdfr`m`i
cdfr`m`i ky tfad b` tnd
mccusmb` bl Updetftbr fs f Km`h _dfhdr.

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Xnd pdrlbrkdr odim`s tb rdfh f pfrtmempf`t, pmeam`i up upb` f
`fkd br btndr spdemlme pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`. Gust prmbr tb tnd
rdvdfc, tnd pdrlbrkdr tur`s tb f hmlldrd`t pdrsb` prdsd`t, f`h
stftds tnft nd a`bws nbw tndy frd trym`i tb m`tumt wnft tnd
m`lbrkftmb` ms fs wdcc… tndmr tnbuint ms lbu`h ebrrdet wnd`
obtn spdetftbrs f``bu`ed tnd sfkd tnbuint fcbuh f`h tnd
 pdrlbrkdr rdvdfcs
rdvdfcs tnd m`lbrkftmb`.
m`lbrkftmb`.

M` ky bpm`mb`, tnd suotcdty ft pcfy ndrd ebuch `bt od smkpcdr. Mt


ef` od fppcmdh wnd` f spdetftbr ms tnm`am`i bl sbkdtnm`i
spdemlme, br dvd` ml b`d spdetftbr ms fttdkptm`i tb m`tumt tnd
pdrlbrkdr”s m`lbrkftmb`.

Xnms tden`mqud ms odst utmcmsdh lbr f` fhhmtmb`fc kbkd`t m`


 wnmen f`btndr spdetftbr
spdetftbr ms imvd` tnd cmkdcmint
cmkdcmint tbb, fcsb
fcsb m`tumtm`i
tnd m`lbrkftmb` wmtn `b ebkprbkmsd br prbedss.

Mt ms vdry strfmintlbrwfrh m` mts wbram`i. M snfcc butcm`d f`h


 ordfa hbw` f kbea pdrlbrkf`ed
pdrlbrkf`ed odcbw7
odcbw7

 Yd snfcc fssukd


fssukd tnft tnd pdrlbrkdr
pdrlbrkdr nfs nfh f spdetftbr
spdetftbr tnm`a bl
f pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`, tnft nd `bw a`bws m` sbkd wfy rdfhy
lbr rdvdfc - wndtndr tnd tnbuint od wrmttd` f`h pddadh usm`i
 ybu lfvburmtd kdtnbh
kdtnbh f`h gustmlmeftmb`,
gustmlmeftmb`, br wndtndr mt
mt od lbredh
lrbk f Uvd`ifcm Zfh (snbuch sbkdtnm`i suen fs tnms fppdfc tb
 ybu). F stfea bl m`hdx
m`hdx efrhs, br f`btndr
f`btndr kdtnbh bl m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb`
iftndrm`i/lbrem`i
iftndrm`i/lbrem`i wmcc fcsb od sumtfocd - fs cb`i fs tnd
pdrlbrkdr sbkdnbw a`bws wnft tnd tnbuint ms!

*F smhd `btd7 m`hdx efrhs ef` od usdh m` vdry hdedptmvd wfys tb


nfvd sbkdb`d tnm`a bl sbkdtnm`i. M wmcc `bt ib m` hdptn ndrd,
out M usd f` m`hdx efrh tb lbred f spdetftbr tb tnm`a bl twb
tnm`is7 b`d pmded bl m`lbrkftmb` ms sfvdh lbr cftdr, sb tnft M ef`
erdftd f ecdf` butebkd lbr nfvm`i sbkdb`d tnm`a bl f pmded bl
m`lbrkftmb` b` tnd spbt - tnd tnd pfrtmempf`t ms prbkptdh lrbk
tnd efrh b` dxfetcy wnft tndy frd tb hb. Lbbh lbr tnbuint, f`h
kfyod kbrd sbb`!*

M` tnms dxfkpcd, wd snfcc lbccbw tnd odcmdl tnft f `fkd dxmsts m`


tndmr km`h, nbwdvdr tndy ebuch od tnm`am`i bl prdtty kuen
f`ytnm`i!

Xnd pdrlbrkdr wmcc odim` tb rdedmvd mkprdssmb`s fobut tnd `fkd


f`h tnd pdrsb`1 pbssmocy f rf`hbk cdttdr lrbk wmtnm` tnd `fkd
ms rdvdfcdh (fs m` Of`fenda”s Orfm` Ifkds - lbu`h u`hdr tnd
tmtcd „Cdttdrs m` f wbrh” m` Zsyenbcbimefc Uuotcdtmds 6 - mt”s b`
pfid <6 m` tnd tnmrh dhmtmb`).

 Fs kuen m`lbrkftmb`


m`lbrkftmb` fs pbssmocd
pbssmocd ms squddzdh but bl tnd
tnd `fkd
f`h pdrsb` wnbk tnd tnbuint bl `fkd odcb`is. Nbwdvdr, mt
snbuch `bt od bovmbus fs tb wnft tnd `fkd ms, tndrdlbrd mt ms odst
tb fvbmh rdvdfcm`i tbb kuen m`lbrkftmb`. Xnd lurtndst M wbuch
ib ms rdvdfcm`i tnd m`mtmfcs bl tnd pdrsb`, fcb`i wmtn hdtfmcs
fobut tnd pdrsb`fcmty bl tnd pdrsb` (usm`i ebch rdfhm`i f`h but
rmint iudsswbra - odm`i obch rdfccy pfys bll)!

Xnd pdrlbrkdr tur`s tb f spdetftbr f`h stftds7

–M odcmdvd tnft ybu frd ndrd, kfyod fcsb trym`i tb


kfad f sd`sd bl wnft tndy frd tnm`am`i, trym`i tb
 lbrkucftd f` mhdf bl wnft tndmr tnbuint ebuch
ebuch od2‛
Hurm`i f pdrlbrkf`ed bl fppfrd`t km`h rdfhm`i, kbst
spdetftbrs (ml snbwm`i f` m`tdrdst) wmcc od fttdkptm`i tb wbra
but wnft tnd tnbuint ms tbb - mt”s cmad f ifkd. Xnm`a tb wnd` ybu
nfvd odd` sft ft nbkd, wftenm`i f ifkd snbw b` tnd tdcdvmsmb`.
Vumtd bltd` - ml `bt fcc tnd tmkd - ybu”cc lm`h tnft ybu m`stm`etmvdcy
pcfy fcb`i tbb - mt”s m`tdrfetmvd d`tdrtfm`kd`t. Mt ms vdry kuen
tnd sfkd wmtn f km`h rdfhdr pdrlbrkm`i cmvd m` lrb`t bl pdbpcd.
Xndrdlbrd, ft tnms pbm`t, tnd spdetftbr wmcc firdd. Fcc tnft `ddh tb
 od d`surdh, ms tnft tnms
tnms spdetftbr ms snbwm`i
snbwm`i f` m`tdrdst m` ybur
ybur
pdrlbrkf`ed7 smttm`i lbrwfrh, cdf`m`i m` tbwfrh ybu1 kfam`i
dyd eb`tfet f`h `bt cbbam`i frbu`h tnd rbbk1 `bt tfcam`i wmtn
btndrs tndrd, hmstrfetdh1 f`h kbst edrtfm`cy `bt ndeacm`i ybu.

Dvd` ml tnd spdetftbr ms`”t trym`i tb wbra but tnd tnbuint mt


hbds`”t kfttdr! Ft tnms pbm`t, ybu ib lurtndr f`h nfvd tndk
luccy lbrkucftd f tnbuint tndksdcvds f`ywfy.

Unbuch `b`d bl ybur spdetftbrs od hmspcfym`i tnd obhy cf`iufid


bl odm`i m`tdrdstdh, smkpcy hb `bt usd tnft cm`d. M usd mt kysdcl
 odefusd M mkkdhmftdcy
mkkdhmftdcy fltdrwfrhs
fltdrwfrhs stftd7

–]bur m`tumtmb` ms `fturfccy lmrm`i up ndrd, nb`m`i m`


upb` tnms m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` ybursdcl.‛

 Ft tnms pbm`t, rdifrhcdss


rdifrhcdss bl wndtndr tndy
tndy fhkmt tb fttdkptm`i
fttdkptm`i tb
m`tumt tnd tnbuint tndksdcvds br `bt, M prbeddh wmtn f psduhb
prbedss m` nfvm`i tndk nb`d m` ecbsdr tb tnd tnbuint. Unbuch
tnd tnbuint od f `fkd, M wbuch suiidst tnd lbccbwm`i7

–Ucbwcy lbrk tnms tnbuint m`smhd bl ybur km`h. M”cc


iumhd ybu f cmttcd ndrd, ndcpm`i ybu tnrbuin wnft tb
tnm`a bl tb nb`d m` ecbsdr tb tnms `fkd. Ub…tnms ms f
kfcd... br f ldkfcd. Xnm`a bl wnft tnms pdrsb` wbuch
cbba cmad, wnft wd nfvd lbu`h tndy fet cmad, f`h idt f
 ldw cdttdrs m` km`h,
km`h, lmctdrm`i hbw`
hbw` tb b`d cdttdr
cdttdr ft f
tmkd fs tnd cdttdrs m` tnms `fkd. ]bu”rd hbm`i irdft.‛

Xnd hmrdet m`struetmb` ndrd „tnms ms f kfcd” ebuch cdfh tndk tb


 odcmdvd tnft tnd `fkd
`fkd odcb`is tb f kfcd
kfcd pdrsb`. Xnms ms @BX
iufrf`tddh, nbwdvdr mt ebuch stftmstmefccy ndcp iumhd tndk. Fs mt
nfs odd` sdt up eb`tdxtufccy fs ybu iumhm`i tndk, tndy frd
cmadcy tb tfad dvdry omt bl ndcp tndy ef` idt. Kfad dyd eb`tfet
 wmtn tnd pdrsb` ybu frd
frd iumhm`i fs ybu sfy –Xnms ms f kfcd‛
tnd` cbba fwfy tb sbkdb`d dcsd fs ybu sfy –br f ldkfcd‛ f`h mt
 wmcc od tfad` fs f hmrdet
hmrdet stftdkd`t tnft tnd
tnd pdrsb` ms kfcd.
kfcd.
Ubltd`m`i ybur vbmed b` tnd stftdkd`t bl –tnms ms ldkfcd‛ wmcc
fcsb kfad mt cdss prbkm`d`t. Ttmcmsm`i tnd tmkd bl vbmed tb kfad
enbmeds kbrd psyenbcbimefccy lfvburfocd ms hmseussdh m`
Zsyenbcbimefc Uuotcdtmds 6 fs „Uuotcd \bmed Lbrem`i” lrbk pfids
96-95 bl tnd tnmrh dhmtmb`.

Xnms pcby ms mkpbrtf`t lbr f skfcc ob`us tnbuint dxpcfm`dh ft


tnd vdry d`h. Mt ms `bt dssd`tmfc ndrd lbr tnd wbram`i bl tnd
rbutm`d, gust prdsd`tftmb`fccy
prdsd`tftmb`fccy mt cbbas fs ml tndy frd nb`m`i m` tb
tnd tnbuint.

 Fctdr`ftmvdcy, ybu
ybu ef` usd tnd kdtnbh odnm`h
odnm`h Zdtdr Xur`dr”s
 FEFF@ lrbk nms nms lmrst pd`ium` cmvd
cmvd cdeturd (fcsb ldfturm`i
ldfturm`i m`
„Lrddlbrk Kd`tfcmsk”)
Kd`tfcmsk”) m` brhdr tb iumhd ybur pfrtmempf`t tb
tnm`a bl tnd id`hdr bl tnd pdrsb` tb od usdh cftdr b`.

 Ymtn tnd spdetftbr odm`i


odm`i iumhdh tbwfrh tnd
tnd id`hdr, mt kfads mt
 gust tnft cmttcd omt kbrd
kbrd cmadcy tnft tndy wmcc
wmcc fetufccy od ebrrdet
 wmtn tnd `fkd tnfttnft tndy tnm`a bl. Xnms rbutm`d
rbutm`d ms surdlmrd hud
hud tb
tnd kdtnbh, fs ybu wmcc ebkd tb u`hdrstf`h vdry snbrtcy. Xndy
frd`”t cmadcy tb od ebrrdet b` tnd m`lbrkftmb`, out b` tnd bll
enf`ed tnft tndy hb tnm`a bl tnd dxfet m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` mt wmcc od f
trud kmrfecd. Yny `bt iumhd tndk f cmttcd tb ndcp tnd stftmstme bl
tnft beeurrm`i m`erdfsd2!

Mt ms eruemfc tb nfvd tndk eb`lmrk tnft tndy nfvd f luccy lbrkdh


mhdf m` km`h, fs tnms wmcc prdvd`t tnd kbkd`t ebccfpsm`i cftdr
b`.

Xndrd ms f ady kbkd`t ndrd tb d`surd tnft tnd butwfrh rdfcmty ms


tnft bur spdetftbr wfs ebrrdet wmtn tndmr m`tumtdh `fkd. ]bu
stftd tnms7

–Ofsdh bll bl enf`ed, mt ms vdry cmadcy tnft tnd iudss


ndrd wmcc od m`ebrrdet. Ml sb, mt hbds`”t kfttdr, mt”s lfmr
tb sfy tnft ybu”vd `dvdr hb`d f`ytnm`i cmad tnms
odlbrd. M wfs rdfhm`i tnd tnbuint lrbk bur sd`hdr bl
m`lbrkftmb` ndrd, f`h fcc wmcc od rdvdfcdh m` gust f
kbkd`t. Lmrstcy tnbuin, cdt”s endea…‛

 Ft tnms pbm`t ybu cdf`


cdf` m` f`h wnmspdr m`tb
m`tb tnd dfr bl spdetftbr
spdetftbr
 wnb nfs odd` m`tumtm`i
m`tumtm`i tnd tnbuint tbb.

–]bu”cc f``bu`ed tnd ebrrdet `fkd m` f kbkd`t - M


rdedmvdh tnd `fkd „Gfea” lrbk tndk. Xnft”s „Gfea”. Oy
tnd wfy fs wdcc, M rdedmvdh sbkdtnm`i lrbk ybu gust
tnd`… ybur stfr smi` ms f \mrib‛.

Xnd pdrlbrkdr cdf`s but f`h fhhrdssds dvdryb`d7


–Xnft wfs tnd tnbuint m` ybur ndfh, tnft”s ebrrdet
yds2 Dxedccd`t. Ub, gust tb rdmtdrftd, m` f kbkd`t M wmcc
ebu`t hbw` lrbk 5 tb 6, tnd` s`fp ky lm`idrs. Ynd` M
s`fp ky lm`idrs, M”h cmad ybu tb stftd tnft `fkd but
cbuh2 F`h ft tnd sfkd tmkd M”h cmad bur sd`hdr tb hb
tnd sfkd - Xb sfy ybur tnbuint wnd` M s`fp.
Irdft gbo oy tnd wfy, ybu hmh dxedccd`tcy!‛

Xndrd ms f cbt tb ordfa tnrbuin ndrd. _ftndr tnf` ordfa mt hbw`


 omt oy omt tb stfrt wmtn, M tnbuint
tnbuint mt wbuch od odttdr tb wrmtd
wrmtd mt fcc
m` b`d ib lbr dfsd bl u`hdrstf`hm`i f`h rdldrrfc,
rdldrrfc, tnd` ordfa
hbw` fltdr.

–Ofsdh bll bl enf`ed, mt ms vdry cmadcy tnft tnd iudss


ndrd wmcc od m`ebrrdet. Ml sb, mt hbds`”t kfttdr, mt”s lfmr
tb sfy tnft ybu”vd `dvdr hb`d f`ytnm`i cmad tnms
odlbrd. M wfs rdfhm`i tnd tnbuint lrbk bur sd`hdr bl
m`lbrkftmb` ndrd, f`h fcc wmcc od rdvdfcdh m` gust f
kbkd`t. Lmrstcy tnbuin, cdt”s endea…‛

Xnd eb`tdxt lbr wnft ybu frd fobut tb wnmspdr ms sdt up ndrd,
cdfhm`i tnd rdst bl tnd fuhmd`ed tb odcmdvd tnft ybu frd fobut tb
 wnmspdr f` m`struetmb`,
m`struetmb`, fcb`i wmtn tnd
tnd m`lbrkftmb` tnft
tnft ybu
 wdrd rdedmvm`i lrbk
lrbk tnd tnbuint sd`hdr.
sd`hdr. Xnd butwfrh rdfcmty
rdfcmty
erdftdh hdpd`hs upb` tnms cm`d.

 Ft tnms pbm`t ybu cdf`


cdf` m` f`h wnmspdr m`tb
m`tb tnd dfr bl spdetftbr
spdetftbr
 wnb nfs odd` m`tumtm`i
m`tumtm`i tnd tnbuint tbb.

–]bu”cc f``bu`ed tnd ebrrdet `fkd m` f kbkd`t - M


rdedmvdh tnd `fkd „Gfea” lrbk tndk. Xnft”s „Gfea”.‛
Xnd m`lbrkftmb` tb od wnmspdrdh ndrd m` tnd pcfed bl „Gfea” wmcc
 od tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` tnft ms a`bw` lrbk
lrbk tnd odim``m`i bl tnd
rbutm`d. Mt”s mkpbrtf`t tb rdmtdrftd tnd m`lbrkftmb` tb tndk, gust
tb d`surd tnft tndy ndfrh mt ebrrdetcy, fs tndy wmcc od rdpdftm`i
tnms ofea m` f ldw kbkd`ts f`h ml tndy nfvd tnd wrb`i
m`lbrkftmb` tnd rbutm`d wmcc ebccfpsd. ]bu fcsb stftd tnft tnd
ebrrdet `fkd ms Gfea, sb tndy wmcc `bt f``bu`ed f` m`ebrrdet
`fkd m` ldfr bl odm`i dkofrrfssdh.

–Oy tnd wfy fs wdcc, M rdedmvdh sbkdtnm`i lrbk ybu


 gust tnd`… ybur
ybur stfr smi` ms f \mrib‛.

Xnms sdetmb` efusds tnd rdfetmb` m` tnd spdetftbr, wnmen erdftds


tnd butwfrh rdfcmty tnft tndmr tnbuint wfs ebrrdet. Xnd rdst bl
tnd fuhmd`ed odcmdvds tnft ybu frd smkpcy wnmspdrm`i f`
m`struetmb` (wnmen ms rdm`lbredh m` f ldw kbkd`ts), fs wdcc fs
tnd `fkd ybu m`tumtdh. Xndrd ms `b rdfsb` tb odcmdvd tnft tnd
pdrlbrkdr wbuch wnmspdr f`ytnm`i dcsd.

Xnd m`lbrkftmb` rdvdfcdh tb tndk wmtnm` ybur wnmspdr ms


prdvmbuscy iftndrdh, f`h ms f tnbuint tnft fcrdfhy dxmsts wmtnm`
tndmr km`h. Hdtfmcs b` sdvdrfc wfys m` wnmen tb hb tnms wmcc od
butcm`dh fltdr tnms sdetmb`.

Xnd pdrlbrkdr cdf`s but f`h fhhrdssds dvdryb`d7

–Xnft wfs tnd tnbuint m` ybur ndfh, tnft”s ebrrdet


yds2 Dxedccd`t. Ub, gust tb rdmtdrftd, m` f kbkd`t M wmcc
ebu`t hbw` lrbk 5 tb 6, tnd` s`fp ky lm`idrs. Ynd` M
s`fp ky lm`idrs, M”h cmad ybu tb stftd tnft `fkd but
cbuh2 F`h ft tnd sfkd tmkd M”h cmad bur sd`hdr tb hb
tnd sfkd - Xb sfy ybur tnbuint wnd` M s`fp.
Irdft gbo oy tnd wfy, ybu hmh dxedccd`tcy!‛

Xnd m`lbrkftmb` rdvdfcdh tb tndk wfs m`smhd bl tndmr ndfh,


tndrdlbrd tndy wmcc eb`lmrk ybur stftdkd`t bl tnd sdeb`h
qudstmb`. Xnd rdfetmb` dcmemtdh lrbk tnd spdetftbr, fs wdcc fs tnd
qudstmb` fsadh tb wnmen tndy eb`lmrk, wmcc cdfh tnd fuhmd`ed tb
 odcmdvd tnft ybur m`tumtm`i
m`tumtm`i spdetftbr ibt
ibt tnd `fkd ebrrdet.

M` stftm`i –gust tb rdmtdrftd‛, mt butwfrhcy erdftds tnd mccusmb`


tnft ybu frd rdstftm`i wnft mt wfs tnft ybu wnmspdrdh. M` rdfcmty,
 ybu frd rdmtdrftm`i
rdmtdrftm`i wnft ybu sfmh m` tnd
tnd wnmspdr - ybu tbch tndk
tndk
tnft tndy wmcc od sfym`i tnft m`lbrkftmb` m` f kbkd`t, ybu frd
smkpcy imvm`i kbrd m`lbrkftmb` ndrd.

Xnd cd`itn bl tnms rdmtdrftmb` stftdkd`t wmcc sddk tb tnd rdst bl


tnd fuhmd`ed fs ml mt ms dxfetcy wnft ybu wnmspdrdh, fs mt cfsts tnd
sfkd tmkd (rbuincy) fs ybur wnmspdrdh stftdkd`t. Xnd
fuhmd`ed `bw pdredmvds tnft tnd spdetftbr wfs wnmspdrdh f`
m`struetmb`, f`h tnd` tnd m`lbrkftmb` - tb wnmen tndy rdfet,
eb`lmrkm`i tnft tnd tnbuint wfs m` tndmr km`h.

Xnd lm`fc eb`irftucftmb`s lurtndr rdm`lbreds tnft tndy ebrrdetcy


rdedmvdh tnd `fkd. Fccbw f nuid skmcd tb sprdfh ferbss ybur
lfed ft tnms pbm`t m` brhdr tb lurtndr tnms mccusmb`.

@bw, wnd` ybu ebu`t hbw` lrbk 5, f`h s`fp, obtn spdetftbrs
 wmcc sfy tnd tnbuint ft
ft sfkd tmkd. Xnms
Xnms sbrt bl rdvdcftmb`
rdvdcftmb` ms vdry
pbwdrluc, rdlcdetm`i tnft tndftrmefc kbkd`t bl f trfhmtmb`fc
hrfwm`i hupcmeftmb` m` wnmen obtn hrfwm`is frd tur`dh f`h
rdvdfcdh tb kften.
 Fs f sfldty kdfsurd,
kdfsurd, f`h tb idt f pbtd`tmfccy
pbtd`tmfccy lurtndr rdfetmb`
rdfetmb` tb
rdm`lbred tnft ybu fcsb ibt tnd m`lbrkftmb` ebrrdet, mt ms odst tb
 wrmtd tnd rdvdfc ybursdcl
ybursdcl tbb. Xnms wfy, snbuch tnd spdetftbr
spdetftbr lbr
sbkd bhh rdfsb` sfy tnd wrb`i `fkd (wnmen ms vdry u`cmadcy fs
tndy wb`”t wf`t tb cbba smccy, f`h ybu nfvd futnbrmty sb tndy wmcc
tfad ybur mkprdssmb` fs trud), tnd` tnd rbutm`d wb`”t lfcc lcft fs
 ybu stmcc nfvd f rdvdcftmb`.
rdvdcftmb`.

Xb ebkpcdtdcy ecdfr up tnd fctdr`ftd rdfcmty, tnd stfr smi` (br


 wnftdvdr m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` ms wnmspdrdh),
wnmspdrdh), kust od rdvdfcdh
rdvdfcdh fifm`.
Xnd ecdfr up ms `bt ebkpucsbry, nbwdvdr ml tnd spdetftbr ms tb
kd`tmb` nbw ybu iudssdh tndmr stfr smi` wnd` tnd rdst bl tnd
fuhmd`ed wfs`”t fwfrd bl tnft, tnd rdfcmtmds wmcc gfr. Xnd kdtnbh
ebuch ebccfpsd m`. Xndrdlbrd, m` tnd `dxt km`h rdfhm`i
hdkb`strftmb`
hdkb`strftmb` tnft ybu prbvmhd,
prbvmhd, ybu rdvdfc tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb`
tnft ybu wnmspdrdh fcb`i wmtn tnd rdvdcftmb` bl tnd `dw rdvdfc7

–]bur stfr smi` ms f \mrib ms`”t mt - f`h tnd pcfed ybu


tnbuint bl wfs Fkstdrhfk2‛

Xnd rdfetmb` lrbk tnd `dw rdvdfc wmcc od pdredmvdh b` tnd wnbcd
 oy tnd rdst bl tnd fuhmd`ed
fuhmd`ed fs ml mt ms tb obtn pmdeds
pmdeds bl
m`lbrkftmb`.
m`lbrkftmb`. Xnms wfy, ml f`yb`d wfs tb fsa fobut tnd stfr smi`,
mt nfs fcrdfhy odd` butwfrhcy rdvdfcdh f`h mt ms vdry u`cmadcy
tnft f`yb`d wmcc sfy f`ytnm`i tnft wmcc snfttdr tnd rdfcmty. Xnd
rdfcmtmds `bw ocd`h tbidtndr `medcy, sb fcc ms sdeurd.
Iftndrm`i Xnd M`lb7
 Ymtnm` tnd m`hustry bl
bl kd`tfcmsk,
kd`tfcmsk, tndrd frd sdvdrfc
sdvdrfc wfys tb
iftndr m`lbrkftmb`. Zddas, mkprdssmb`
mkprdssmb` hdvmeds, f`firfks,
bosdrvftmb`, rdsdfren m` fhvf`ed, f`h btndr prbpcdss kdtnbhs
bl ifr`drm`i m`lbrkftmb` frd fcc dxfkpcds bl wfys tb iftndr
m`lbrkftmb` lbr rdvdfc.

M` tdrks bl iftndrm`i m`lbrkftmb` lbr tnms rbutm`d, mt ms iftndrdh


f`h tnd` `ddhs tb od stbrdh, tnd pdrlbrkdr `bt rdvdfcm`i tnft
tndy a`bw tnd m`lbrkftmb` u`tmc mt ms `ddhdh lbr usd fs f` but.
Xndrd frd f vfrmdty bl wfys tb hb tnms, wnmen wmcc od dxpcfm`dh
 odcbw.
M`lbrkftmb`
M`lbrkftmb` tnft M pdrsb`fccy lddc ms sumtfocd tb usd ef` m`ecuhd7
prdvmbuscy wrmttd` br tnbuint bl `fkds1 stfr smi`1 hftd bl omrtn1
pm` ebhd, br dvd` f prdvmbuscy sdcdetdh pcfym`i efrh tnft tnd
pdrlbrkdr hmskmssds.
hmskmssds. Zdrsb`fccy, M”k m` tnd odcmdl tnft f pm`
ebhd lbr tndmr pnb`d ms tbb pbwdrluc f rdvdfc, f`h snbuch od
usdh b` mts bw` fs f sbcmtfry pmded. Nbwdvdr, ml ybu ef` iftndr
tndmr ebhd m` sbkd wfy (bosdrvftmb`, br f pdda) f`h hb`”t wmsn
tb butwfrhcy rdvdfc mt tnd` ybu frd focd tb usd mt ndrd.
M`lbrkftmb`
M`lbrkftmb` tden`mquds frd fs lbccbws7
 Zdda f`h Hmskmssfc7
Hmskmssfc7
Nfvm`i ybur spdetftbr wrmtd hbw` tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` tnft ybu
 wmsn tb iftndr, odlbrd
odlbrd pddam`i tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` oy wnftdvdr
wnftdvdr
kdf`s ybu wmsn (Vufhrf`t Zdda1 f` Mkprdssmb`
Mkprdssmb` hdvmed1 Ed`trd
Xdfr1 br dvd` f id`drfc pdda), tnd` hmskmssm`i tnd m`lbrkftmb`
f`h sdiudm`i bll m`tb f`btndr dlldet ms f hdlm`mtd bptmb` tb usd m`
brhdr tb ifr`dr wnftdvdr m`lbrkftmb` tnft ybu kdf` tb utmcmzd
ndrd.
 F ed`tdr tdfr ef` bltd` ib u`gustmlmdh, wmtn
wmtn tnd prbedss sddkm`i
sddkm`i
bhh - wny wbuch f pmded bl m`lbrkftmb` od wrmttd` hbw` gust tb
nfvd mt rmppdh up odlbrd rdvdfc2 Bl ebursd sbkd pdrlbrkdrs frd
nfppy tb utmcmzd f ed`tdr tdfr tb iftndr m`lbrkftmb`, M fk `bt
sfym`i tnft tndrd ms f`ytnm`i wrb`i wmtn mt f`h M nfvd sdd`
kd`tfcmsts tbtfccy rbea f sdt usm`i f ed`tdr tdfr. Nbwdvdr, wmtn f
hmskmssfc bl tnd m`lbrkftmb` tndrd, tnd rmppm`i tbtfccy kfads
cbimefc sd`sd, f`h fcsb orm`is tnd spdetftbrs iufrh hbw` fobut
tnd tdfrm`i s mt sddks tb od cdss suspmembus.

Zsyenbcbimefccy, tnd m`lbrkftmb` f`h prbedss ms hmskmssdh, sb


cftdr, wnd` ybu ebkd tb rdvdfc tnft m`lbrkftmb`, mt ms kuen
kbrd hmllmeuct tb ofeatrfea.

Xnms ms f eb`edpt a`bw` wmhdcy (M odcmdvd), nbwdvdr m wbuch cmad


tb erdhmt Lrfsdr”s „Lu`hfkd`tfcs bl Kd`tfcmsk” dpmsbhd, wndrd
tnms ms nmincmintdh, fs wdcc fs Kmenfdc Kurrfy lbr nms „Xnbuint
T`cm`am`i” eb`edpt lrbk „F Zmded bl Ky Km`h”, f`h Kfra
Enf`hfud”s „Uerfp Mt Zrm`empcd” lrbk „Nfrpferbw`”. M wbuch
rdebkkd`h ybu pmea up tndsd ml pbssmocd - tndy frd wdcc wbrtn
tnd m`vdstkd`t!
 Fhhmtmb`fc M`lbrkftmb`
M`lbrkftmb` Omccdt7
 F` fhhmtmb`fc m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` omccdt
omccdt ef` od imvd` tb tnd spdetftbr
spdetftbr tb
nfvd tndk lmcc but, m` brhdr tb iftndr twb sbcmh pmdeds bl
m`lbrkftmb` - b`d bl wnmen ms rdvdfcdh, tnd btndr/btndrs bl
 wnmen frd stbrdh lbr
lbr cftdr usd.
 F` fhhmtmb`fc m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` omccdt
omccdt wbuch cbba cmad tnms7
tnms7

 ]bur tnbuint7
 RRRRRRRRR
 RRRRRRRRR
 Fcsb, pcdfsd wrmtd
wrmtd hbw` ybur stfr smi`
smi` ndrd fs f ob`us7
ob`us7
 RRRRRRRR
 RRRRRRRR

Xnd spdetftbr wmcc od nf`hdh tnd omccdt f`h m`struetdh tb –iftndr


 ybur tnbuints f`h ebkpcdtdcy
ebkpcdtdcy lmcc but tnd efrh,‛
efrh,‛
Xnbuint Ofeatrfeam`i - Kmtendcc Adttcdwdcc 
Xnms ms f ofsme kdtnbh stukocdh ferbss wnd` eb`smhdrm`i mhdfs
lbr iftndrm`i m`lbrkftmb`. Mt ms usdh tb ebvdrtcy iftndr
m`lbrkftmb` lrbk f spdetftbr, mt”s ky lfvburmtd kdtnbh tb usd m`
brhdr tb iftndr twb pmdeds bl m`lbrkftmb` lrbk f spdetftbr, out
tndy frd b`cy hmrdetcy fwfrd bl b`d. M”h ib fs lfr tb sfy tnft mt ms
sb ebvdrt tnft bltd` tnd spdetftbr wmcc `bt rdkdkodr mt ft fcc f`h
 wmcc od vdry u`cmadcy tb dvd` od focd tb ofeatrfea f`ytnm`i.
f`ytnm`i. M
 wb`”t cmd, M”k prdtty
prdtty prbuh bl tnms.

Umkpcy, f spdetftbr ms imvd` f omccdt, f`h m`struetdh tb wrmtd tndmr


stfr smi`. Fltdr f sdeb`h, tnd pdrlbrkdr enf`ids nms/ndr km`h
f`h stftds7

–M` lfet, erbss tnft but, lbridt tnft. M”h cmad ybu tb
 pcdfsd tfad f kbkd`t tb lbeus
lbeus upb` f`h wrmtd hbw`
wnft f`mkfc tnft ybu odcmdvd tnft ybu wbuch od, ml
ybu wdrd tb od b`d. Xfad tmkd tb eb`smhdr tnms… tnd`
ebkkmt ybur tnbuint tb pfpdr.‛ 

Xnd pfrtmempf`t ms cdlt d`buin tmkd tb wrmtd tnd lmrst ? br 5


cdttdrs bl tndmr stfr smi`, odlbrd odm`i m`struetdh tb erbss mt but,
f`h lbridt tnft prbedss. Hud tb tnd lfet tnft tndy nfvd`”t
ebkpcdtdh tnd wrmtm`i prbedss, mt ms hmskmssdh psyenbcbimefccy.
psyenbcbimefccy.
Xndy frd m`struetdh tb lbridt tnd smi` f`h wrmtm`i fs wdcc,
hddkm`i tnft wrmtm`i bl tnd stfr smi` fs u`mkpbrtf`t, fmhm`i m`
tnd hmskmssfc prbedss. Mt ms mkpbrtf`t tnft ybu cdfvd d`buin
tmkd lbr tnd spdetftbr tb wrmtd twb cdttdrs, sb tnft mt odebkds
dfsmdr tb hdtdrkm`d tnd ebrrdet smi`, fs tndrd ms sbkd erbssbvdr
m` lmrst cdttdr. Xndrdlbrd, M fccbw tndk tmkd tb wnft M lddc wbuch
 od tnrdd cdttdrs, tnms wfy
wfy ybu idt f km`mkuk
km`mkuk bl twb cdttdrs
 wrmttd`. Updetftbrs
Updetftbrs b`cy dvdr put f cm`d
cm`d tnrbuin tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb`
tnft tndy nfvd wrmttd`, kfam`i tnd wrmtm`i rdfhfocd.
Beefsmb`fccy sbkdb`d
sbkdb`d kfy rdfccy sermoocd, nbwdvdr tnms ef` stmcc
 od rdfhfocd, out ml mt ms `bt tnd` ybu hb `bt nfvd
nfvd f` mssud fs tnd
f`mkfc ms stmcc wrmttd` but lbr ybu tb rdvdfc. F`btndr b`d bl tnd
kdtnbhs lbr iftndrm`i f pmded bl m`lbrkftmb` lbr cftdr usd wmcc
nfvd tb od utmcmsdh. Nbwdvdr, tnms vdry rfrdcy beeurs.

 Ynd` ybu ebkd tb pddapdda tnd wnbcd pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`


m`lbrkftmb` tnft
tnft
tndy nfvd wrmttd`, ybu frd dssd`tmfccy idttm`i f hbuocd pdda - tnd
hmskmssdh m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` f`h tnd lbeusdh tfridt tnbuint. M`
dssd`ed tnms ms f lbrk bl fhhmtmb`fc m`lbrkftmb` omccdt, wmtn f
pbtd`tmfccy kbrd `fturfc sddkm`i prbedss. Ymtn tnms m` km`h,
tndrd ms fosbcutdcy `btnm`i wrb`i wmtn f stf`hfrh fhhmtmb`fc
m`lbrkftmb` omccdt, tndy edrtfm`cy sdrvd tndmr purpbsd f`h wbra
m` pcfeds tnft tnms tden`mqud ebuch`”t.

 F`y pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`


m`lbrkftmb` ef` od wrmttd`
wrmttd` fs tnd tfridt tnbuint
tnbuint
tnft tnd pdrlbrkdr enf`ids tndmr km`h tb ib lbr, nbwdvdr M
purpbsdcy enbbsd tb nfvd tnd spdetftbr eb`smhdr wnmen f`mkfc
tnft tndy odcmdvd tnft tndy wbuch od. Xnd rdfsb` wny, ms odefusd
mt fccbws ybu tb utmcmsd f `dft cmttcd rdfhm`i systdk lbr ybu tb
imvd f rdfhm`i tb tndk lrbk tndmr tnbuints. M nfvd lbu`h tnms
dspdemfccy usdluc wnd` prfetmem`i hdcmvdrm`i f rdfhm`i.

M` wrmtm`i wnft f`mkfc tnft tndy odcmdvd tndy wbuch od, tndy frd
imvm`i hdtfmcs fobut tndksdcvds tb ybu. Oy rdfhm`i f`h
hdsermom`i fspdets fobut tnd f`mkfcs `fturd, ybu frd hdsermom`i
nbw tnd pfrtmempf`t pdredmvds tndksdcvds! Feeurftd rdfhm`is fcc
frbu`h! Dxfkpcds bl rdfhm`is wmcc od m`ecuhdh ft tnd d`h bl tnms
sdetmb` b` tnd tden`mqud.

Odm`i tnd tfridt pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`, tnd f`mkfc mtsdcl ms


rdvdfcdh. Dvd` tnbuin tnd f`mkfc ms rdvdfcdh, fs cb`i fs tnd
 omccdt wmtn tnd stfr smi`
smi` f`h f`mkfc wrmttd`
wrmttd` b` ms `bt rdtrmdvdh,
rdtrmdvdh,
tnd spdetftbr wmcc nfvd `b rdfsb` tb odcmdvd tnft tnd pdrlbrkdr
nfs m`hddh cbbadh ft tnd m`lbrkftmb`, f`h tb tndk, wmcc `bt od
focd tb nfvd a`bwcdhid bl tndmr stfr smi`.

Xnd cdttdrs tnft ybu wmcc sdd, wmtn f cm`d tnrbuin, wmcc od b`d bl
tnd lbccbwm`i7

Cd ; Cdb
Zm ; Zmseds
Id ; Idkm`m
 \m ; \mrib
Ue ; Uebrpmb
Ef ; Ef`edr/Efprmebr`
Ef`edr/Efprmebr`
Xf ; Xfurus
Cm ; Cmorf
 Fq ; Fqufrmus
Uf ; Ufimttfrmus
 Fr ; Frmds

Cbbam`i ft tnd twb cdttdrs tnft tnd spdetftbr nfs wrmttd`, tnd`
erbssdh but, ybu wmcc m`stf`tcy a`bw tndmr stfr smi` (u`cdss tndy
frd f Ef`edr, br f Efprmebr`, m` wnmen efsd ybu nfvd tb utmcmzd
tnd „ETZU prm`empcd” oy Kmenfdc Kurrfy fs b`d wfy tb
hdtdrkm`d odtwdd` tnd twb).

Utfr smi`s frd `bt tnd b`cy m`lbrkftmb` tnft mt ms pbssmocd tb


iftndr bl ebursd. Mkfim`d nfvm`i tnd spdetftbr tnm`a bl tnd
`fkd bl sbkdb`d mkpbrtf`t tb tndk, wrmtm`i tndmr `fkd hbw`
(pfrtcy) b` f omccdt, tnd` tndy frd m`struetdh tb stbp f`h erbss mt,
lbridttm`i fobut mt, tnd` wrmtm`i f wbrh tnft sukkfrmzds
sukkfrmzds tnd
pdrsb` (br dvd` sbkdtnm`i tbtfccy u`rdcftdh fs ml tnd pdrlbrkdr
nfs tbtfccy enf`idh tndmr km`h b` wnft ms tb od rdvdfcdh). M`
pddam`i tnd lmrst ldw cdttdrs bl tnd `fkd tnft frd b` tnd omccdt
prmbr tb tnd fctdr`ftmvd tfridt m`lbrkftmb`,
m`lbrkftmb`, f lfmrcy feeurftd mhdf
bl wnft tnd `fkd fetufccy ms ef` od ifm`dh. Ttmcmzm`i tnd
kdtnbhs hmseussdh m` Lrfsdr”s wbras, ybu ef` vdry feeurftdcy
`fmc f `fkd tnft tnd spdetftbr ms tnm`am`i bl. Mt ms odst ml f tmkd
hdcfy odtwdd` pddam`i tnd cdttdrs f`h rdvdfcm`i tnd `fkd ms
usdh, fs mt wmcc kfad tnd rbutm`d kbrd hdedptmvd. M` brhdr tb
d`surd tnft tnd sfkd `fkd ms stbrdh wmtnm` tnd pfrtmempf`ts
km`h, f spdemlme cm`d bl sermptm`i ms usdh lbr tnd hmskmssfc7

–M` lfet, erbss tnft but, lbridt tnft. Gust put tnft
`fkd tb tnd ofea bl ybur km`h lbr cftdr wnd` mt”s tb
snmlt ofea tb tnd lrb`t.‛ 

Cftdr, tnd efccofea cm`d ms spbad`7

–M”h cmad ybu pcdfsd tb lbeus upb` f `fkd - fccbw b`d


tb snmlt lrbk tnd ofea bl ybur km`h, ofea tb tnd lrb`t.‛

Xnd efcc ofea cm`d hmrdetcy mhd`tmlmds tb tnd spdetftbr tnft tndy
frd tb tnm`a bl tnd spdemlme `fkd tnft tndy pcfedh tb tnd ofea bl
tndmr km`h dfrcmdr b`. Fs tnd m`struetmb` ms sfmh hmrdetcy tb tndk,
mt wmcc od u`hdrstbbh oy tndk m` tnft wfy, tb dvdryb`d dcsd mt
 wmcc smkpcy sddk
sddk fs ml f `fkd
`fkd ms odm`i tnbuint bl b` tnd spbt.

_dfhm`is7
Imrflld7
–M lddc m`stf`tcy tnft ybu”rd f vdry fkomtmbus pdrsb`, M ef` sdd
tnft ybu sdt f ibfc f`h ybu wbra tbwfrhs mt u`tmc ybu frd
sbkdwnft sftmslmdh.
sftmslmdh. ]bu”rd `bt f qumttdr - ml ybu ef` ndcp mt,
fctnbuin M lddc sbkdtmkds ibfcs nfvd sddkdh f cmttcd tbb lfr f`h
 odefusd bl tnms ybu”vd
ybu”vd imvd` up prdkfturdcy,
prdkfturdcy, f`h tnft b`d
b`d tmkd
pdbpcd qudstmb`dh wny odefusd tndy odcmdvdh tnft ybu ebuch
fenmdvd irdft tnm`is.
M”k fcsb sd`sm`i tnft ybu hb`”t gust td`h tb lbeus b` b`d tnm`i ft
f tmkd… ybu lbeus b` kfyod twb, br dvd` tnrdd ibfcs ft f tmkd
sbkdtmkds, f`h odefusd bl tnms mt ef` lddc cmad ybu”rd idttm`i
`bwndrd. Ml ybu ordfa tnm`is hbw`, M tnm`a ybu”cc lm`h f`h fcsb
firdd tnft tndrd wmcc od f` fetmvd kbvdkd`t lbrwfrh m` wnft
 ybu”rd hbm`i, f`h tnms
tnms wmcc cdfh tb tnd btndr
btndr lbefc pbm`ts bl
bl
fkomtmb` odebkm`i dfsmdr.‛

Cmb`7
–Ky lmrst mkprdssmb` wmtn ybu ms tnft ybu nfvd f strb`i
pdrsb`fcmty typd. M lddc tnft ybu lddc tnft ybu ef` od strb`icy
bpm`mb`ftdh, out tnms ms`”t f ofh tnm`i. ]bu d`surd tnft wnft ms
rmint lbr ybu nfppd`s f`h ybu hb`”t cdt tnm`is tnft nfppd` idt
m` tnd wfy tbb kuen. M fcsb lddc tnft ybur strb`i pdrsb`fcmty
typd ms tb hb wmtn f eb`lmhd`ed, fctnbuin tndrd”s f lddcm`i wmtnm`
 ybu bl sbkdtmkd
sbkdtmkd nfvm`i m`sdeurmty
m`sdeurmty bvdr tnm`is. Fltdr f snbrt
 wnmcd ybu hmskmss
hmskmss fs u`mkpbrtf`t
u`mkpbrtf`t f`h smccy, ft f`btndr
f`btndr pbm`t tnd
tnbuint rdtur`s. Xnms fcsb ms`”t f ofh tnm`i, mt snbws tnft ybu”rd
f lfmrcy hbw` tb dfrtn pdrsb` f`h nfvd f sblt spbt tnft b`cy
tnbsd tnft rdfccy a`bw ybu wdcc b` f pdrsb`fc cdvdc sdd, f`h
fpprdemftd. M fcsb a`bw tnft ml sbkdtnm`i nfppd`s, ybu td`h tb
`bt fccbw ybur dkbtmb`s tb snbw b` tnd butsmhd tbb kuen.
Odefusd bl tnms, ybu lm`h tnft pdbpcd ebkd tb ybu lbr suppbrt
f`h ebklbrt m` f tmkd bl `ddh, f`h mt”s `bt u`tmc ybu frd fcb`d
tnft ybu rdfccy cdt mt ebkd tb km`h f`h eb`smhdr tnm`is kbrd -
tnft”s wnd` ybu cdt ybur dkbtmb`s. Xnbsd tnft frd frbu`h ybu
hdlm`mtdcy rdfccy fpprdemftd ybu lbr tnbsd qufcmtmds bl odm`i tndrd
f`h rdkfm`m`i strb`i lbr tndk, f`h fctnbuin mt kfy sddk cmad f
skfcc tnm`i, ms b`d bl tnd odst qufcmtmds sbkdb`d ebuch nfvd.‛

 F smkmcfr tden`mqud
tden`mqud ms dxpcfm`dh m`
m` @meb Ndm`rmen”s
Ndm`rmen”s „Zurd
Kd`tfcmsk”, d`tmtcdh „Lbribttd` Mkprdssmb`s”.
Mkprdssmb`s”. Xnf`a ybu @meb
lbr ocdssm`i kd tb hmseuss ky tden`mqud ndrd hdspmtd tnd scmint
smkmcfrmtmds.
Tpb` Uaypm`i Lrfsdr, nd m`lbrkdh kd bl f smkmcfr tden`mqud
tnft _bss Xfycdr f`h nmksdcl wdrd usm`i m` tnd brmim`fc „Brfecd”
fs wdcc, sb f`btndr mkpbrtf`t erdhmt - dspdemfccy fs tnd twb bl
tndk frd ft tnd lrb`tcm`d bl tnd kbhdr` Kd`tfcmsk kbvdkd`t.
Ebvdrt _dtrmdvfc7
 ]dt f`btndr tden`mqud tbtb sderdtcy stbrd f pmded
pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`,
m`lbrkftmb`, ms
tb utmcmzd f` f`firfk, wndrd ybu ib fs lfr fs tnd rdvdfc wmtnbut
fetufccy rdvdfcm`i tnd m`lbrkftmb`, ofeam`i but f`h hmskmssm`i
m` tnd sfkd wfy fs wmtn tnd wrmttd` hmskmssfc dfrcmdr hmseussdh.
 F stfr smi` F`firfk
F`firfk ms ky prdldrrdh
prdldrrdh fpprbfen, wndtndr
wndtndr mt od f
cdttdrdh f`firfk, br b`d bl tnd kf`y btndr stfr smi` iudssm`i
kdtnbhs fvfmcfocd - M a`bw Lrfsdr nfs kf`y, b`d br kbrd bl
 wnmen M fk edrtfm`
edrtfm` ybu wmcc cbvd f`h put
put tb usd ndrd.

Ml ybu wbuch ecfss mt fs f` f`firfk bl sbrts, tnd` f omrtnhftd


iftndrm`i kdtnbh (suen fs Msfodccf”s Utfr ? oy Zdtdr Xur`dr)
ebuch od usdh tb iftndr tnd omrtnhftd `bt tb rdvdfc. MU? Ef` `bw
 od hb`d prbpcdsscy
prbpcdsscy tnf`as tb tnd kdtnbhs
kdtnbhs fvfmcfocd tbtb us m`
brhdr tb iftndr f twb hmimt `ukodr. M”vd odd` usm`i Lrfsdr”s
„Kd`tfc Zdda” lbr f sm`icd hmimt `ukodr bl tnd fstrbcbimefc
`ukodr, tnd` idttm`i tnd sdeb`h hmimt usm`i „Uprm`iobfrh” oy
Kmenfdc Kurrfy. Xnd fstrbcbimefc `ukodr hmimts frd `bt
rdvdfcdh wnd` M nfvd tndk, M imvd f `ukdrbcbiy rdfhm`i ofsdh
bll bl tnd `ukodr f`h stfr smi` iudssdh usm`i tnd f`firfk
„kb`adym`i frbu`h” (tfuint m` vfrmbus pcfeds tnrbuinbut tnd
 wbra bl Zdtdr Xur`dr),
Xur`dr), odlbrd rdvdfcm`i
rdvdfcm`i mt, stbrm`i tnd hftd bl
bl
 omrtn lbr cftdr usd fs
fs tnd but.

 Ynmcst `bt odm`i f` f`firfk,


f`firfk, tnd kdtnbh
kdtnbh M cbvd usm`i ms ms
Lrfsdr”s „Zcby” tden`mqud. ]bu idt f nmt bl f tbtfccy hmlldrd`t
pmded bl m`lbrkftmb`, wnmcst iftndrm`i tndmr stfr smi`. Mt sdrvds
pdrldetcy m` tnms sed`frmb.

M T`cbea ]bur Km`h prb oy Kyad Znmccmps, Empndr oy Dccusmb`mst,


f`h Xbxme+ frd fcc usdluc kbomcd fpps tnft iftndr m`lbrkftmb`
(suen fs hftd bl omrtn f`h stfr smi`) vdry ebvdrtcy wmtnm`
f`btndr dlldet. Xndsd frd m`vfcufocd tbbcs lbr ifr`drm`i tnms
m`lbrkftmb` ml ybu wmsn tb usd tndk m` f lmttm`i wfy wmtnm` ybur
pdrlbrkf`eds.
pdrlbrkf`eds. Xndrd ms f cfrid hmseb``det (dspdemfccy wmtn f
tmkd hdcfy) odtwdd` tnd dlldet f`h tnd rdvdcftmb` bl tnd stfr smi`
br hftd iftndrdh, m` tnd sfkd wfy fs Zcby wbuch.

 Ft tnd stfrt bl dvdry


dvdry sdt tnft M pdrlbrk,
pdrlbrk, M wmcc utmcmzd tnd Xnbuint
Xnbuint
Ofeatrfeam`i tden`mqud, br tnd fhhmtmb`fc m`lbrkftmb` omccdt m`
brhdr tb iftndr f pmded bl m`lbrkftmb` stbrdh lbr usd wmtnm` tnms
tden`mqud lbr fhhmtmb`fc, skbbtn sddkm`i m`lbrkftmb` rdvdfc
(fs m` tnd `ukodr rdvdcftmb` lrbk tnd pfsswbrh rbutm`d), br fs
f ofea-up tb prbvmhd f` but lbr f`y beefsmb` tnft b`d ms `ddhdh.
Ob`us Zcby7
 Ymtnm` tnd wnmspdr
wnmspdr m`tb tnd spdetftbrs
spdetftbrs dfr, tndrd ms f skfcc,
skfcc,
suotcd tnm`i tnft ef` od sfmh wnmen wmcc nfvd tndk eb`lmrk tnft
tndmr tnbuint wfs ebrrdet. F hmrdet qudstmb` bl7

–]bu wdrd fetufccy ebrrdet b` tnd m`lbrkftmb` tnd`2


]bu nmt tndrd2‛

 F`h tnd spdetftbr wmcc


wmcc eb`lmrk „yds”.
„yds”.
Xnd pcby ms fcsb lfmrcy strfmintlbrwfrh. Xnms ms wndrd tnd
lbrem`i/iumhm`i tbwfrh f hdtfmc bl tnd m`lbrkftmb` lrbk dfrcmdr
ebkds m`tb pcfy. Ml ybu nfvd pddadh f kfcd `fkd, f`h lbredh
tnd km`h rdfhm`i spdetftbr tb tnm`a bl f kfcd, ybu ef` usd tnms
lfet tb kfad tndk eb`lmrk tnft tndy wdrd ebrrdet. Xnd eb`tdxt
sdt up sermpt ms usdluc ndrd7

–Ofsdh bll bl enf`ed, mt ms vdry u`cmadcy tnft tnd iudss


ndrd wmcc od m`ebrrdet. Ml sb, mt hbds`”t kfttdr, mt”s lfmr
tb sfy tnft ybu”vd `dvdr hb`d f`ytnm`i cmad tnms
odlbrd. M wfs rdfhm`i tnd tnbuint lrbk bur sd`hdr bl
m`lbrkftmb` ndrd, f`h fcc wmcc od rdvdfcdh m` gust f
kbkd`t. Lmrstcy tnbuin, cdt”s endea…‛

Xnd sermpt sbltd`s tnd ocbw tnft tndy frd`”t ebkpcdtdcy ebrrdet,
 out fmhs m` tndk eb`lmrkm`i
eb`lmrkm`i tnft tndy wdrd
wdrd m` lfet ebrrdet m` f
ldw kbkd`ts tmkd.
Xnd pdrlbrkdr cdf`s m` f`h wnmspdrs7

–Xnd pdrsb` tnft tndy frd tnm`am`i bl ms f kfcd, sb


dvd` ml ybu b`cy ibt tnft hdtfmc ebrrdet, tnft ms f nmt
f`h wd wmcc sfy tnft ybu frd ebrrdet.‛
Xnms wfy, wnd` ybu fsa cftdr (fltdr tndy rdfet f`h nfvd
eb`lmrkdh tnft tndy wdrd ebrrdet, f`h fltdr tnd rdvdcftmb`) ml
tndy wdrd „fetufccy ebrrdet, f`h nmt b` mt” tndy wmcc eb`lmrk wmtn
f „yds”. Lbr tnbsd wbrrmdh fobut tnms odm`i lfmrcy obch (mt ms lfmrcy
 obch f`h rdqumrds tnd spdetftbr
spdetftbr tb luccy ebbpdrftd
ebbpdrftd wmtn ybu),
ybu), mt
ef` od endeadh wmtn tndk fsmhd, wnd` `b b`d dcsd ms pfym`i
fttd`tmb` br wnd` sbkdb`d ms cbbam`i tnrbuin f obba lbr f obba
tdst rbutm`d, br ml f`yb`d dcsd ms cbbam`i lbr sbkdtnm`i1 fckbst
cmad f hu``m`idr pcby tb lm`h but ml tndy wdrd ebrrdet. ]bu ef`
rdm`lbred lbr tndk tb eb`lmrk, oy endeam`i wnd` tfcam`i fsmhd
tb tndk7

–Hmh ybu idt f nmt b` tnd kfcd2 ]bu wdrd ebrrdet tnd`
fs M sfmh2‛ 

Xnd` wnd` dvdryb`d ms pfym`i fttd`tmb` snbrtcy fltdr, tnd btndr


endeam`i cm`d ef` od sfmh7

–]bu wdrd fetufccy ebrrdet b` tnd m`lbrkftmb` tnd`2


]bu nmt tndrd2‛

Xnd usd bl „fetufccy” kfads tnd rdst bl tnd fuhmd`ed pdredmvd tnd
stftdkd`t tb od id`um`d wnd` tndy eb`lmrk, luccy ebkpcdtm`i
tnd pdrldet rdfcmty tnft tnd spdetftbr rdfh f`btndr”s km`h. Xnd
spdetftbr ndrd wmcc `bt wf`t tb cbba smccy, sb wmcc rdlrfm` lrbk
dkofrrfssm`i
dkofrrfssm`i tndksdcvds f`h f`swdr wmtn f „yds”. Xnms
pfrtmempftmb` ms fcsb obbstdh m` wbram`i oy tnd sdeb`hfry
qudstmb`. Xnd sdeb`h qudstmb` ms dfsmdr tb f`swdr fs tndy a`bw
tnd f`swdr tb tnft - f`h mt”s trdftdh fs f rdmtdrftmb` ml ybur
brmim`fc qudstmb`, smkpcmlym`i mt. Xndrdlbrd, tndy wmcc f`swdr
„yds” tb tnd lfet tnft tndy nmt b` hdtfmcs.
Xnms spdemlme pcby wmcc tfad f cmttcd prfetmed m` lm`hm`i sbkdb`d
 wnb wmcc ebbpdrftd
ebbpdrftd wmtn ybu, out mt ms ofsme
ofsme spdetftbr f`h
fuhmd`ed kf`fidkd`t rdfccy. M nfvd eb`lmhd`ed tnft fltdr gust f
ldw tdst ru`s b` kdkodrs bl tnd puocme, mt wmcc od wbram`i lbr
 ybu f`h ybur enfrfetdr.
enfrfetdr. Mt”s fcc fobut lm`hm`i
lm`hm`i tnd ebrrdet wfy bl
bl
sfym`i tnd stftdkd`t tb nfvd tndk firdd wmtn ybu wmtnbut ybu
sddkm`i suspmembus.
suspmembus. Ft tnd d`h bl tnd hfy, tndy wb`”t wf`t tb
fhkmt tnft tndy ibt mt wrb`i, sb f`y enf`ed tndy frd imvd` tb sfy
tndy ibt mt ebrrdet (fs wmtn tnms pcby - sfym`i ml tndy ibt tnd
ebrrdet id`hdr, tnd` tndy frd ebrrdet), tndy wmcc gukp f`h tfad
mt.
Btndr Omts f`h Obos7
Xnms odif` fs f spdetftbr fs f km`h rdfhdr suotcdty, usm`i mt
fcb`ismhd Lrfsdr Zfradr”s rdvdrsd pm` iudss „M lfcc tb pmdeds”.
Zdtdr Xur`dr”s rdvdrsd iudss m` nms Ft Xnd Xfocd Cmvd Cdeturd ms
fcsb lf`tfstme.
M` tnms rbutm`d, tnd sdeb`hfry spdetftbr wmcc idt f 8 hmimt ebhd m`
km`h, f hmimt ft f tmkd, wmtn `b`d bl tnd prbedss tnft tnd btndr
spdetftbr nfs tb hb tb m`tumt tnd ebhd. Xnd kdtnbh ms dxfetcy tnd
sfkd - tnd sfkd sermptm`i f`h fcc.

Xb suk up, tnd kdtnbh ms tb wnmspdr f prdvmbuscy iftndrdh


rdvdfc m`tb f spdetftbrs dfr, wnmcst kfam`i mt sddk fs ml ybu frd
 wnmspdrm`i tnd m`lbrkftmb`
m`lbrkftmb` tnft
tnft ybu a`bw tnd btndr spdetftbr
spdetftbr ms
tnm`am`i bl.
Xfam`i Enf`eds7
Xnd kbst vfcufocd pmded bl fhvmed M wfs dvdr imvd` fs f
pdrlbrkdr bl Kd`tfcmsk, efkd lrbk Zdtdr Xur`dr. Xnd lmrst
tmkd tnft M kdt nmk, nd wrbtd b` f efrh lbr kd „od obch orbtndr”.
Dvdr sm`ed M”vd tfad` tnft fhvmed wmtn kd dvdrywndrd. Xfam`i
enf`eds nfs bpd`dh up sb kf`y bppbrtu`mtmds lbr kd f`h rdfccy
tfad` ky kd`tfcmsk tb f`btndr cdvdc.

Ubkd frd wbrrmdh fobut odm`i obch f`h tfam`i enf`eds,


nbwdvdr, fs lfr fs M fk eb`edr`dh, ml ybu nfvd f sbcmh butebkd
ft tnd d`h tnd` wnft hbds mt kfttdr2 Yny `bt tnrbw but f
rf`hbk `fkd bl f pdrsb`, br f pcfed, fsam`i wnft tndsd tnm`is
kdf` tb ybur spdetftbr2 ]bu ef` nmt f`h tnd` tnft wmcc rdfccy
kfad ybu erdhmocd (out kbst bl fcc d`tdrtfm`m`i). Ml ybu kmss
f`h tnd m`lbrkftmb` kdf`s `btnm`i, tnd` wnft hbds mt kfttdr2
 ]bu trmdh mt f`h mt hmh`”t
hmh`”t wbra, out ybu stmcc nfvd
nfvd ybur lm`fc
bvdrfcc dlldet tb kfad ybur ebkdofea wmtn. M` ky dxpdrmd`ed,
kmssm`i b` m`lbrkftmb` odlbrd nmttm`i b` tnd tfridt
m`lbrkftmb`,
m`lbrkftmb`, ebkpcdtm`i tnd hdsmrdh dlldet, wmcc prbvmhd strb`i
rdfetmb`s. ]bu cbwdr tndmr dxpdetftmb`s, tnd` d`h up dxeddhm`i
tndk wnd` ybu hb kfad ybur nmt m` tnd d`h. M”k `bt sfym`i tnft
 ybu snbuch kmss m` dvdry dlldet tnft ybu
ybu pdrlbrk. B`d br br twb
kmssds wmtnm` f wnbcd sdt frd lm`d. Xbb kf`y kmssds hfkfid
 ybu, tnd beefsmb`fc
beefsmb`fc b`d gust cbwdrs dxpdetftmb`s
dxpdetftmb`s f cmttcd,
cmttcd, oumchs
td`smb` f`h tfads tndk b` f gbur`dy, tnd` tnd pdrlbrkf`ed ms
kbrd d`tdrtfm`m`i f`h tnd rdfetmb` cfridr.

 Fccbw kd tb snfrd
snfrd f ldw dxpdrmd`eds
dxpdrmd`eds lrbk pdrlbrkf`eds.
pdrlbrkf`eds. Zcdfsd
hb `btd, M fk `bt snfrm`i tndsd fs f` dibtmstmefc bppbrtu`mty.
bppbrtu`mty. M
fk snfrm`i tb nbpdluccy m`spmrd sbkd bl tnbsd tfam`i tnd tmkd tb
rdfh tnms ocbi tb tfad enf`eds.
Xnd kbst stf`h but stbry lbr kd wfs sft m` ebccdid sbkd tmkd
fib. M wfs pdrlbrkm`i f` dlldet lrbk Umkb` Efm`d”s _fzbr
Unfrp (tnd dlldet m` qudstmb` odm`i _biud), f`h tnd spdetftbr
hdemhdh tb od f cmttcd fwawfrh (odm`i f lrmd`h bl km`d ,fltdr fcc,
tndy wf`tdh tb enfccd`id kd sbkdwnft).

Lbr tnd lmrst ldw pnfsds, tndy tbuendh wnftdvdr efrh M `fkdh
lbr tndk tb lm`h. B` tnd tnmrh pnfsd, odlbrd M ibt tb `fkd tnd
efrh lbr tndk tb tbuen, tndy tbuendh b`d. M odif` tb dxpcfm`
tnft ml tndy hmh`”t a`bw wnft tndy wdrd cbbam`i lbr tnd` nbw
hmh tndy a`bw ml tnd efrh ldct ebrrdet tb tndk tb sdcdet. Xndy
 wbuch`”t imvd m` f`h
f`h tbuen f`btndr efrh,
efrh, sb M smkpcy fsadh
fsadh
tndk7

–Bafy...Ub tnd`, wnft efrh hb ybu odcmdvd tnft ms2‛

Xb tnms, tndy rdpcmdh7

–Xnd tnrdd bl spfhds.‛

 Ft tnms pbm`t, M id`um`dcy


id`um`dcy hmh`”t a`bw wnft
wnft tnd efrh wfs. Xnd
Xnd
efrhs wdrd obrrbwdh sb M nfh `b a`bwcdhid bl tnd efrh tb dvd`
fttdkpt tb psyenbcbimefccy lbred tnd efrh upb` tndk. Xnd efrh
 wfs tur`dh bvdr...
bvdr... f`h lbu`h tb od tnd tnrdd
tnrdd bl spfhds.

 F`btndr dxfkpcd,
dxfkpcd, wnmen ms pbssmocy
pbssmocy ky lfvburmtd
lfvburmtd dvdr enf`ed
tfad`, wfs b` tnd `mint bl Fmhf` B”Uuccmvf`”s stfid snbw, wnmen
 Fmhf` f`h kysdcl
kysdcl nfh odd` wbram`i tbidtndr
tbidtndr b` lbr kb`tns.
kb`tns.
 Fltdr tnd snbw, f ldw
ldw pdbpcd stfydh
stfydh odnm`h wmtn us f`h wd nfh
nfh
f skfcc fltdr snbw pfrty. Yd nfh lbu`h f ldw ofhkm`tb`
rfeadts f`h wdrd pcfym`i ofhkm`tb`. M hdemhdh tb tfad f
rf`hbk enf`ed. M wnmspdrdh tb b`d bl tnd pdbpcd wnb wfs`”t
pcfym`i7 –B`d kbrd nmt lrbk tndk, tnd` mt wmcc kmss f`h tnd
rfccy ordfa.‛ Mt wfs f purd enf`ed M tbba, f`h tndrd wfs f nmt bl
tnd snuttcdebea, tnd` tnd rdedmvm`i pdrsb` wd`t tb rdfet f`h
rdtur`, tndy nmt mt... out tnd` tnd snuttcdebea nmt tnd lcbbr. Xnd
rdfetmb` lrbk tnd pdrsb` wnbk M nfh wnmspdrdh tnft tb wfs
lfoucbus. M wmsn M ebuch”vd efuint mt b` efkdrf - tndmr kbutn
hrbppdh bpd` f`h tndy cbbadh ft kd. Xnd btndrs `btmedh f`h
fsadh wnft nfppd`dh, ft wnmen pbm`t M cdlt tnd rbbk tb fccbw
tndk tb rdfet tndksdcvds f`h dxpdrmd`ed tnd kbkd`t.

Xndsd kbkd`ts ,bl ebursd, ef` nfppd` ft id`um`dcy f`y tmkd.


Nbwdvdr, mt ms sb wbrtn tfam`i tndsd enf`eds.

M”vd hdemhdh tb suiidst f enf`ed tb tfad tnd `dxt tmkd edrtfm`


sed`frmbs beeur lbr ybu7

 ]bu a`bw tnft f``bym`i


f``bym`i spdetftbr tnft
tnft enfccd`ids ybu –wnft
–wnft
frd `dxt wddas
wddas cbttdry `ukodrs2‛
`ukodrs2‛ Xndy frd `bt `bt rdfccy dxpdetm`i
dxpdetm`i
 ybu tb rdspb`h wmtn < `ukodrs. Xnft ms ms dxfetcy wnft ybu snbuch
snbuch
hb. Yrmtd sbkd hbw`. ]bu `dvdr a`bw - ml mt nmts tnd` ybu”vd
 gust prdhmetdh tnd cbttdry
cbttdry f`h tnft spdetftbr
spdetftbr wmcc cmadcy `dvdr
lbridt ybu lbr fmhm`i tndk m` wm``m`i tnft kb`dy. Ml mt kmssds...
 wdcc wnft hbds mt kfttdr.
kfttdr. Xndy wb`”t
wb`”t tnm`a f`y hmlldrd`t
hmlldrd`t bl ybu,
tndy wmcc ebkkd`h ybu lbr fttdkptm`i.

M b`ed nfh f spdetftbr kdssfid kd 4 tmkds fsam`i kd tb prdhmet


4 sueedssmvd cbttdry hrfws - lfmcm`i dfen tmkd out ydt tndy stmcc
rdtur`dh. Yny `bt tfad tnft enf`ed2 ]bu `dvdr a`bw.
a`bw.

*F skfcc tmp lbr tnms... M wfs`”t ibm`i tb m`ecuhd tnms out wny `bt.
Xnms ms wnft M sd`t tb tnd pdrsb` wnb fsadh kd tb prdhmet mt
kuctmpcd tmkds7 „5, 66, 6< br 69, ?<, 5?. M”k `bt surd b` tnd 6< br
69, ybu hdemhd upb` wnftdvdr lddcs rmint tb ybu. Xndrd wmcc od
f`btndr `ukodr tbb bovmbuscy - M”k rdfccy `bt surd sb pcdfsd hb
enbbsd f `ukodr ybursdcl.”

 Ynft nfvd M hb`d


hb`d ndrd2 M”vd bpd`dh
bpd`dh kysdcl f`btndr
f`btndr bppbrtu`mty
f`h cfmh tnd rdspb`smomcmty b`tb tndk. Xndy frd kfam`i tnd lm`fc
hdemsmb` b` tnd `ukodrs. B`d bl tnd < `ukodrs M nfvd fetufccy
bpd`dh but tb b`d bl ? `ukodrs, imvm`i kysdcl f scmintcy cfridr
enf`ed bl odm`i ebrrdet (irf`tdh `bt kuen bl f enf`ed out dvdry
cmttcd ndcps), tnd` fccbwdh tndk tb kfad tnd hdemsmb` b` f`btndr
`ukodr. M”vd bpd`dh kysdcl up kbrd enf`eds, wnmcst fcsb
snmltm`i fttd`tmb` bll bl kd.

Xnms hmh lfmc - twb `ukodrs wdrd ebrrdet, out bvdrfcc tndrd wdrd
`b wm``m`is. Xnd pdrsb` fsadh fifm` tb wnmen M rdpcmdh7 „Addp
tndsd `ukodrs m` km`h f`h ft sbkd pbm`t wnd` ybu lddc tnd
urid tb hb sb, put f sm`icd tmeadt b` ml ybu ef` hb mt wmtnbut mt
flldetm`i ybu deb`bkmefccy, wmtn tnbsd `ukodrs. Ft sbkd pbm`t,
sbkdtnm`i wmcc ebkd up”

Bl ebursd, tndy wmcc ebkd up ft sbkd pbm`t dvd`tufccy - mt gust


kfy `bt od wnd` tndy put f tmeadt b`. Xndrdlbrd, wnd` tnbsd
`ukodrs hb ebkd but M wmcc idt tnd erdhmomcmty lbr mt!
Zcdfsd hb `btd tnft M fk `bt suiidstm`i tndy put f tmeadt b`
dvdry hrfw, M hb `bt wf`t tb ludc br odim` f ifkocm`i fhhmetmb`.
M”vd odd` efrdluc fobut mt. *
Xndy ifvd erdhmt lbr odm`i ecbsd. M bpd`dh kysdcl but sbkd dxtrf
bppbrtu`mty f`h mt pfmh bll. Yny `bt hb tnd sfkd2

Btndr bppbrtu`mtmds wmcc frmsd m` pdrlbrkf`ed. Yny `bt tnrbw


but f kb`tn, f ydfr, br dvd` f lucc hftd m` pdrlbrkf`ed2 Xndy
kfy lm`h sbkd smi`mlmef`ed. F`h ml tndy hb`”t tnd` smkpcy tdcc
tndk tb addp tnd hftd m` km`h, wrmtm`i b` ybur ousm`dss efrh. Mt
kfy odebkd f sdcl luclmccm`i prbpndey. M` lfet, oy imvm`i tndk f
hftd, tndy wmcc od cmadcy tb rdkdkodr ybu fs tndy wb`hdr fobut
 wnft wmcc beeur, out fcsb,
fcsb, tndy wmcc cbba lbr
lbr sbkdtnm`i tnft
nfppd`s b` tnft hftd tnft ebuch od pdredmvdh fs smi`mlmef`t tb
tndk (tndrdlbrd luclmccm`i tnd prbpndey tndksdcvds - mt hbds`”t
nfvd tb od f wdhhm`i br f omrtnhfy tb od smi`mlmef`t)!

 Yny `bt tnrbw but f `fkd`fkd bl f pdrsb`


pdrsb` br f pcfed2 Fkdrmef
Fkdrmef
sddks tb nmt f lfmr omt fs sbkdwndrd tnft sbkdb`d
sbkdb`d wf`ts tb ib
br nfs f tmd wmtn. Xnd` b`tb @dw ]bra ml tnft hbds nmt.

Ub kf`y enf`eds prdsd`t tndksdcvds tb us f`h sbkd hb `bt


tfad tndk up. M u`hdrstf`h wny, f`h ? ydfrs fib M wfs`”t tfam`i
enf`eds ft fcc. Lfmcm`i hbds `bt kfad ybu sddk u`prbldssmb`fc
u`prbldssmb`fc
br prbvds tnft ybu frd gust nukf`. Dvdryb`d kfads kmstfads
f`h tnd hdlm`mtmvd butebkd wmcc trukp tnft lfmcurd. Yny `bt try
f`h sdd wnft ebkds bl mt2 Mt”s odttdr tb try, f`h lfmc, tnf` mt ms tb
lfmc tb try. Mt”s nb`dstcy wbrtn f try - ybu stmcc nfvd f sbcmh dlldet
tb lm`msn wmtn, f`h ml f`ytnm`i nfvm`i f` beefsmb`fc kmss wmcc
kfad wnft ybu frd hbm`i sddk kbrd mkprdssmvd.
Erdhmt7
@bw ms tnd tmkd tb tnf`a f`h erdhmt Zdtdr Xur`dr fifm`. Nd
trucy ms f` m`spmrftmb` bl km`d f`h wmtnbut nmk kbhdr`
Kd`tfcmsk wbuch`”t od tnd sfkd.
Hmsiumsm`i f rdvdfc wmtnm` f wnmspdr kust od feerdhmtdh tb nms
„Obo Zrm`empcd” m` Omiidr Lmsn ?, lmrst hdoutm`i m` „Hdvmc M`
Hmsiumsd 6”.

 Fmhf` B”Uuccmvf`
B”Uuccmvf` - Yd tfca hfmcy
hfmcy f`h sb kuen ebkds
ebkds but bl bur
eb`vdrsftmb`s,
eb`vdrsftmb`s, mt wbuch od wrb`i tb `bt erdhmt ndrd.

Gbdc Hmeam`sb`, _bss Xfycdr, Lrfsdr Zfradr, f`h @meb Ndm`rmen,


lbr tnd smkmcfrmty tb tnd Xnbuint Ofeatrfeam`i tden`mqud oy
kysdcl.

Lrfsdr Zfradr, Ad`tb` A`dppdr, f`h Zdtdr Xur`dr - lbr tndmr


 wbra b` usm`i vdromfid
vdromfid tb erdftd m`erdhmocd
m`erdhmocd dlldets.
Lm`fc Xnbuints7

Lbr kbrd m`lbrkftmb` fobut prbhuets bl km`d, pcdfsd vmsmt7


nttp7//www.kdenf`mesbltndkm`h.ebk/tmtf`/ 

Ml ybu dkfmc kd wmtn tnd wbrh „Xmtf`”, tnd` M wmcc sd`h ybu f cm`a
lbr sbkd ob`us kftdrmfc - b`cy lbr tnbsd bl ybu tnft nfvd
purenfsdh tnms f`h dkfmcdh kd ft7
kmtendccakd`tfcmskJikfmc.ebk

 \mhdb eb`td`t wmcc fcsb


fcsb od pbstdh b` tnft
tnft pfid - ybu ef`”t ib
 wrb`i m` dkfmcm`i
dkfmcm`i kd rdfccy!

Kf`y tnf`as lbr purenfsm`i tnms D-Obba - M cbba lbrwfrh tb tnd


luturd!
Kmtendcc A
Cb`hb`, ?:6>

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