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High School relationships. Sheesh. I’ve been there, Hell, I AM there.

It’s difficult to communicate


or to know what is really “worth it.” Looking at this situation Marc is in, It might be difficult to
make a choice. Yet, From a combination of a lack of reciprocation within the relationship,
Hypocrisies in the actions of his girlfriend, Carly, and Other opportunities that have opened up
for mark to perhaps rethink the choices of the last six months, a relationship that might have
simply been triggered by erratic emotions and jumps to conclusions; Marc’s Best interests would
most cetraing surround Leaving Carly and going separate ways with someone who has proven
time and time again to simply be not healthy for him.

Marc’s Struggles with His girlfriend and her ugly relationship with his best friend, Matt
seemingly create a discrepancy within the relationship about who is able to see which friends
within the relationship. Carly’s strained relationship with matt is reasonable justification for her
not to go to His party. But it’s the Attitude in her words, about how Marc “Obviously Cares more
about Matt” than her, that is so damning.(Source F) These are words that not only hurt Marc,
judging from his schedule outside of this involving planning a surprise Date with her the day
following, specifically MAKING TIME for her in this crazy, Busy week full of Baseball practices
and other weekly obligations(Source A). But ALONG with this, Carly spends time during the
week, That same time, that SAME NIGHT having a girls’ night with her friend, Sara. Matt doesn’t
protest, or make a big deal about her making plans away from him at the same time. It’s pure
hypocrisy, and Carly’s reluctance to realize the parallels most certainly shows a lack of
communication and fairness within the relationship.

In a relationship, rethinking your actions and falling out of love with your s/o and falling for
someone else is tricky-Either you remain in a state of longing and try to fix your relationship, or
you go forward, remove yourself from someone who makes you feel better, who you feel
confident in spending your time with. Now for Marc to go to this party and enjoy his time with
someone, a girl who not only likes Matt, but also considers him to be a great guy? Someone
who (If the post means anything at all) trusts him? Anna is kinder, and probably more favorable
by mark as well (Source G). In addition, If Marc is so willing to Have Anna take such Cute,
Couple-y Photos with him, does his connection to Carly really stay as prevalent as said? It’s
said in document B that not only is Mark speaking more and more to Anna, but Carly has been
through six different commitments within the past year, which brings into question aspects such
as her own commitment to this relationship. Marc’s own words state in this section that he
“really enjoys hanging out with her”, Blanket statements of how she’s “Cute, Funny, and all
around awesome” ONE week into Dating, even professing his love. Perhaps off this rush of the
beginning of a relationship, off of their “Honeymoon phase,” Marc finds himself craving
connections with someone who he has an established connection with, as well as someone who
he agrees with more easily.

The different factors surrounding this situation are tricky. Of course, speaking to each other
about the situation at hand, expressing how you feel towards one another, full transparency is
the go-to. But if, after thus entire fight, Marc is still questioning his life choices? Not only is there
an alternate route in which he could feel more confident and more happy, But this time his
emotions could be better calculated, decided, and hopefully the removal of Hypocrisy.

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