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What Does
It Really
Take to Build
a New Habit?
By Kristi DePaul
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Notes
1. David T. Neal, Wendy Wood, and Jeffrey M. Quinn,
“Habits—A Repeat Performance,” Current Directions in
Psychological Science 15, no. 4 (2006): 198–202.
2. Howard J. Klein et al., “When Goals Are Known: The
Effects of Audience Relative Status on Goal Commitment
and Performance,” Journal of Applied Psychology 105,
no. 4 (2020): 372–389.
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How to Break
Up with Your
Bad Habits
By Jud Brewer
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Notes
1. Amy F. T. Arnsten, “Stress Signalling Pathways That
Impair Prefrontal Cortex Structure and Function,” Nature
Reviews Neuroscience 10 (2009): 410–422.
2. “The Anxiety Habit Loop,” Dr. Jud (blog), March 15, 2020,
https://drjud.com/how-anxiety-becomes-a-habit/.
3. Judson A. Brewer et al., “Mindfulness Training for Smok-
ing Cessation: Results from a Randomized Controlled
Trial,” Drug and Alcohol Dependence 119, no. 1–2 (2001):
72–80; and Ashley E. Mason et al., “Testing a Mobile
Mindful Eating Intervention Targeting Craving-Related
Eating: Feasibility and Proof of Concept,” Journal of
Behavioral Medicine 41 (2018): 160–173.
4. Amy C. Janes et al., “Quitting Starts in the Brain: A
Randomized Controlled Trial of App-Based Mindfulness
Shows Decreases in Neural Responses to Smoking Cues
That Predict Reductions in Smoking,” Neuropsycho-
pharmacology 44 (2019): 1631–1638; Amy C. Janes et al.,
“Insula–Dorsal Anterior Cingulate Cortex Coupling Is
Associated with Enhanced Brain Reactivity to Smoking
Cues,” Neuropsychopharmacology 40 (2015): 1561–1568;
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Notes
1. Tom Rath and Jim Harter, “Exercise, Sleep, and Physical
Well-Being,” Gallup, October 21, 2010, https://news.gallup
.com/businessjournal/127211/exercise-sleep-physical
-wellbeing.aspx.
2. “Reading ‘Can Help Reduce Stress,’” The Telegraph,
March 30, 2009, https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/
health/news/5070874/Reading-can-help-reduce-stress
.html.
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Adapted from “The Right Way to Form New Habits,” HBR IdeaCast
(podcast), December 31, 2019.
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How Timeboxing
Can Make You
More Productive
By Marc Zao-Sanders
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Notes
1. “The Definitive 100 Most Useful Productivity Tips,” fil-
tered, https://learn.filtered.com/hubfs/Definitive%20100
%20Most%20Useful%20Productivity%20Hacks.pdf.
2. Belle Beth Cooper, “Autonomy Could Be the Key to
Workplace Happiness,” World Economic Forum, Au-
gust 15, 2016, https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2016/08/
autonomy-could-be-the-key-to-workplace-happiness.
3. “Are Digital Distractions Harming Labour Productivity?”
The Economist, December 7, 2017, https://www.economist
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.com/finance-and-economics/2017/12/07/are-digital
-distractions-harming-labour-productivity; and “2018
Workplace Distraction Report,” Udemy, https://research
.udemy.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/FINAL-Udemy
_2018_Workplace_Distraction_Report.pdf.
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Note
1. Tom Ireland, “What Does Mindfulness Meditation Do to
Your Brain?” Scientific American, June 12, 2014, https://
blogs.scientificamerican.com/guest-blog/what-does
-mindfulness-meditation-do-to-your-brain/.
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Prevent Burnout
by Making
Compassion
a Habit
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Practice self-compassion
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Give empathy
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that you gain their trust, which is good for your stress
level and your ability to influence them.
Coach people
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Notes
1. Kandi J. Wiens, “Leading Through Burnout: The Influence
of Emotional Intelligence on the Ability of Executive Level
Physician Leaders to Cope with Occupational Stress and
Burnout” (PhD diss., University of Pennsylvania, 2016),
https://www.proquest.com/docview/1848147162?pq
-origsite=gscholar&fromopenview=true.
2. Kathryn Birnie, Michael Speca, and Linda E. Carlson,
“Exploring Self-Compassion and Empathy in the Context
of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR),” Stress
& Health 26, no. 5 (2010): 359–371; Helen Riess, “The
Power of Empathy: Helen Riess at TEDxMiddlebury,”
TEDx Talks, YouTube video, December 12, 2013, https://
www.youtube.com/watch?v=baHrcC8B4WM; and
Richard J. Davidson, “Toward a Biology of Positive Affect
and Compassion,” in Visions of Compassion: Western Sci-
entists and Tibetan Buddhists Examine Human Nature,
eds. Richard J. Davidson and Anne Harrington (Oxford:
Oxford University Press, 2001).
3. Robert Waldinger, “What Makes a Good Life? Lessons
from the Longest Study on Happiness,” TEDxBeacon-
Street, December 23, 2015, https://www.ted.com/talks/
robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons
_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness.
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Building Healthy
Habits When
You’re Truly
Exhausted
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Get moving
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Notes
1. Joe Leech, “7 Science-Based Health Benefits of Drink-
ing Enough Water,” Healthline, reviewed June 30, 2020,
https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/7-health-benefits
-of-water.
2. “Exercise: 7 Benefits of Regular Physical Activity,” Mayo
Clinic, October 8, 2021, https://www.mayoclinic.org/
healthy-lifestyle/fitness/in-depth/exercise/art-20048389.
3. Kristen Nunez, “13 Benefits of Working Out in the Morn-
ing,” Healthline, reviewed July 10, 2019, https://www
.healthline.com/health/exercise-fitness/working-out-in
-the-morning.
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By Sabina Nawaz
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One executive tracks progress toward meeting three of his behavioral goals.
January
Goal 4 5 6 7 8 11 12 13 14 15 18 19
Attended one device-free meeting Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y
Used delegation dial N N Y Y Y N Y Y Y Y N Y
Sent two or fewer IMs Y Y Y Y Y N Y Y N N Y N
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What Separates
Goals We Achieve
from Goals
We Don’t
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Note
1. Walter Mischel, Yuichi Shoda, and Monica L. Rodriguez,
“Delay of Gratification in Children,” Science 244, no. 4907
(1989): 933–938.
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Celebrate to Win
By Whitney Johnson
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can rest. You can look around. You can take a deep
breath, have a snack. But you’ve got to keep moving,
otherwise you get complacent.”
Celebration is an event, not a destination. It’s the
little pause where we survey the road we’ve trav-
eled and the mountain we’ve climbed. We can have
a snack with our colleagues or friends, rather than
alone in our office. We rest, we catch our breath, we
contemplate the next opportunity ahead, before de-
scending to climb again. But the fact that the interval
is brief doesn’t make it unimportant, or harmless if
neglected. Celebrating achievements great and small
is high-octane fuel for further achievement. We don’t
just celebrate the win; we celebrate to win.
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