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CRISELDA C. FERNANDEZ
VICTOR A. FERNANDEZ
Developers
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PREFACE
This module is a project of the Curriculum Implementation Division
particularly the Learning Resource Management and Development Unit,
Department of Education, Schools Division of Baguio City which is in
response to the implementation of the K to 12 Curriculum.
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
CONSULTANTS:
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
COPYRIGHT NOTICE.........................................................................ii
PREFACE.........................................................................................iii
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT......................................................................iv
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What I Need to Know.........................................................................2
What I Know......................................................................................3
Pre-assessment.................................................................................3
What’s In...........................................................................................4
Review...............................................................................................4
What’s New........................................................................................5
Activity 1...........................................................................................5
What Is It..........................................................................................6
What’s More......................................................................................9
Activity 2...........................................................................................9
Assessment of Activity 2..................................................................11
Activity 3.........................................................................................12
Assessement of Activity 3.................................................................12
Activity 4.........................................................................................13
Assessement of Activity 4.................................................................13
What I Have Learned.......................................................................14
Activity 5.........................................................................................14
What I can do..................................................................................15
Activity 6.........................................................................................15
Activity 7.........................................................................................15
Post Assessment..............................................................................16
Additional Activities.........................................................................17
Activity 1.........................................................................................17
Activity 2 ........................................................................................18
ANSWER KEY..................................................................................19
REFERENCES.................................................................................20
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Intersubjectivity
A Module in Introduction to the
Philosophy of the Human Person
1st Semester, Second Quarter/Week 3
and Week 4
CRISELDA C. FERNANDEZ
VICTOR A. FERNANDEZ
Developers
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What I Need to Know
This module was developed for you to understand that we, human
beings, are by nature relational beings. To be human means, among others,
that it is innate for us to relate, and endeavor to come up with authentic
and meaningful relationships with our fellow human beings.
To the Facilitator:
To the Learner:
It is hoped that through this module you will be able to enhance and
learn knowledge on the following competencies.
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B. Learning Objectives
At the end of this module, you should be able to:
1. discuss what intersubjectivity is, and that intersubjectivity
necessitates the acceptance of differences between “selves”/subjects
or necessitates the avoidance of imposing some things by a
self/subject to an other/object.
2. explain that authentic dialogue springs from your accepting
others/other “selves” even if they are different from you.
3. demonstrate your recognition and appreciation of the talents and
contributions to society of persons with disabilities and of persons
from the underprivileged sectors of society.
What I Know
Pre-assessment
Direction: Write a check mark (/) in the box before the number if the
sentence in the number is true about the concept of intersubjectivity. Do not
write anything in the box before the number if the sentence in the number is
not true about the concept of intersubjectivity. Number 1 is done to serve as
an example for you.
/ 1 An intersubjective human relationship does not just happen.
2 It takes time and effort for an intersubjective human
relationship to take shape, develop, deepen, take root and
flourish.
3 We human persons are essentially the same.
4 Because an intersubjective human relationship is a subject-
to-subject relationship, the human persons in the
relationship mutully recognize and respect each other’s/one
another’s personhood.
5 An interpersonal human relationship is founded not only on
respect but also on love.
6 An intersubjective human realtionship is more profound
than an interpersonal human relationship.
7 There can be an intersubjective human relationship without
love.
8 A subject-to-subject relationship is a relationship of human
persons who are not equals.
9 The giving of one’s whole being to another and the receiving
of this by the other is free/voluntary.
10 The human persons in an I-thou relationship respect, accept
and love each other’s/one another’s entire being, including
their distinctions/differences.
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11 It, in an I-it relationship, is always inferior to I.
12 The I-it relationship is an object-to-object relationship.
13 A human person is regarded as an object when he/she is
related to for business issues.
14 In a subject-to-subject human relationship, somebody is
used to serve the personal interests of somebody else.
15 The I-thou relationship is a dehumanizing relationship.
What’s In
In Lesson 3, The Human Person as an Embodied Spirit, you learned
about the notion of the self/interiority, and about the notion of the other/
externality. Show how much you can still recall about your lesson regarding
these by accomplishing the table below.
Review
Direction: Carefully read the list of words and phrases inside the box below.
Select the words and phrases that have something to do with “the self” and
write these in the self/interiority column below the box. And then select the
words and phrases that have something to do with “the other” and write
these in the other/externality column below the box.
emotions
asking existential questions
feelings of guilt
interaction
personal thoughts and ideas
beyond the limits of the subject
meditation
inner life
reflection
freewill
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Did you find it easy to identify which of the words and phrases in the
box have to do with the self, and which have to do with the other? What
made it easy/difficult for you?
Keep in mind the concepts of the self/subject looking within
him/herself, and the other/the fact of existing outside the perceiving subject
because these will help you understand what intersubjectivity is.
What’s New
In this module, it is going to be reiterated that we, human beings, are
by nature relational beings, and that it is innate for us to endeavor to come
up with authentic and meaningful relationships with our fellow human
beings. Here, you will read and know about what intersubjectivity is. Let us
begin delving into this concept with you doing the picture analysis activity
that follows.
Activity 1
Picture Analysis
Directions: Analyze the picture below and answer the questions about it on
the lines that are provided.
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1. What does the difference between the size of the stickman and the size
of the hand mean?
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What Is It
We, human persons, are innately beings with others, our fellow
creations. We were created to relate not only with our fellow living beings
but also with the non-living things. We are, by nature, relational beings.
How many human relationships are you into? You cannot count them
with just the fingers of a hand of yours, can you? You are into far more than
just five human relationships. Among your human relationships are those
with your parents and/or your guardian/s, your sibling/s, if you are not the
sole child, your paternal and maternal grandparents, aunts, uncles and
cousins, not to mention your neighbors, teachers, classmates, schoolmates
and your thousands of online friends. Indeed, you are into innumerable
human relationships. Now, the question is how many of the human
relationships that you are into are intersubjective. Can you readily tell the
exact number of the human relationships that you are into, that are
intersubjective, even if the concept of intersubjectivity is not crystal clear to
you? The answer to this question is no, isn’t it? Hence, let us turn inside out
what intersubjectivity means.
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Necessarily, at the outset of an intersubjective human relationship is
self-awareness. No intersubjective human relationship can come into
existence without awareness of the self. The awareness of one’s self/the
sense of self is that which defines a person’s individuality.
And then awareness of the self as being seen by the other comes next
before an intersubjective human relationship is formed. Put in another way,
first, the two human persons are of awareness of each other’s existence.
Take note that this is merely one-way. And next, at least the self has the
awareness of being seen by the other. Notice that the awareness has become
two-way.
You should not fail to notice that for an interpersonal human relation
to come to be the self should not just have a simple awareness of the
existence of the other (one-way). Here, only the self has an awareness of the
existence of the other. The self remains totally unnoticed by the other.
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there an interpersonal human relationship already? While both the self and
the other have awareness of the existence of each other, no one of the two
already has awareness of him/herself in the other. We repeat, recognizing
the self in the other is how philosophers define interpersonal relations.
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loving one another’s entire being, which signify a sense of care for,
commitment to and responsibility for one another.
What’s More
Activity 2
Directions: Read, and understand “4 Things I Have Learned from Being
Married to a Disabled Man”. Disability Horizons 24/04/2019
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found my match, who happened to be disabled.
We are now married and, I can tell you, there’s a lot I’ve learned
from being in an interabled marriage.
1. We treat each other as equals
If you are with someone disabled, your relationship isn’t going to be
exactly the same as other peoples’. Since my partner is in a wheelchair,
there are limitations to what he can do. But this doesn’t mean I treat him
like a child when I need to give him a helping hand.
Yes, there are some things he cannot do. But just because he has a
disability, it doesn’t mean we’re not equal partners in our relationship.
There were, and still are, occasional times I go into ‘mommy mode’. But
these are the times when I need to check in with myself and give him the
respect he deserves.
2. There’s never enough time – but we’re learning ways to be efficient
Because I’m also his caregiver, time flies. If we need to go out, it takes time
to get two people ready. Add working, cooking, and cleaning to the
equation and your time becomes tight. This is usually why we’re always
late to almost everything.
But, as a fairly newly married couple, we’re always learning together tricks
and creative ways to cut down on prep time. A few more hours would still
help though. Who do we speak to about that?!
3. Communication is essential
What I’ve learned, and am still learning, is the importance of
communication. When you’re in a relationship, in general, communication
is crucial for understanding your partner and vice versa. But when there’s
a disability involved, you really need to learn to express yourself.
There are some days when I feel overwhelmed or tired, and this is when I
really need to let my husband know how I am feeling. If I don’t, I become
cranky and irritable towards him – and I can’t blame him when he didn’t
do anything wrong.
By expressing how I feel, he’ll try to give me an extra hand and relieve
some of my stress. We’re a team, and if you want to be in a strong team,
the members need to communicate.
4. People are going to ask a lot of questions
The outside world doesn’t see many couples like us. That means we’re
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seen as something different to the norm. When we go out and people see
us kissing or holding hands, all eyes are on us.
I’m not upset about it as I completely understand that people aren’t
exposed to this very often. So, people are going to ask a lot of questions –
they’re curious.
Friends and family want to know how our relationship functions, while
strangers have been known to ask intimate questions. I usually have a
couple of jokes lined up and keep the topic light-hearted.
By talking about our relationship, people understand how normal the
relationship actually is.
No one said marriage was easy. And when you’re in an interabled
marriage, things are a little different. But my husband and I have
experienced happiness and connection, something I was searching for.
Sure, we could use a couple of extra hours in our day, but we love each
other. And what I’ve learned from our relationship are things everyone will
experience in their own relationship. At the end of the day, we’re not so
different.
By Disabled Mate
Source: https://disabilityhorizons.com/2019/04/4-things-i-have-learned-from-
being-married-to-a-disabled-man/
Assessment of Activity 2
Direction: Reflect on “4 Things I Have Learned from Being Married to a
Disabled Man” by answering the following questions on the lines that are
provided.
1. Are you among the people that do not think that an able-bodied
person would marry a person with disability? Why are you one or not
one of these people?
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2. Do you think that an able-bodied person may establish a friendship
with a person with disability? What are the reasons for your answer?
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3. What make a human relationship a love relationship/friendship?
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Activity 3
Directions: Fill the hurdle images with the obstacles that are preventing you
from being able to form meaningful relationships/friendships with others.
And then write a way through which you can at least reduce each of these
barriers to meaningful relationships/friendships with others. An example is
given for you to find it easier to accomplish this activity.
hurdle 4
Assessment of Activity 3
Direction: Answer the following questions on the lines that are provided.
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1. Why is it important that you can identify the obstacles that are
preventing you from being able to form meaningful
relationships/friendships with others?
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2. Why is it significant that you know a way through which you can at
least reduce each of the barriers to your being able to form meaningful
relationships/friendships with others?
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Activity 4
Direction: Ponder on the following quotes:
2 “Some people will only love you as much as they can use you.
Their loyalty ends where the benefits stop.”-Tamara Renaye
3 “People don’t abandon people they love. They abandon people they
were using.”-Shravya Sweetie
Assessment of Activity 4
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What I can do
Activity 6
Direction: Fill each box with an action that you can do to make others aware
of and understand intersubjectivity.
1 2
Activity 7
Direction: Fill each box with an action that you can do to demonstrate your
appreciation for the talents of persons with disabilities and those from the
underprivileged sectors of society.
1 2
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Post Assessment
Direction: Write a check mark (/) in the box before the number if the
sentence in the number is true about the concept of intersubjectivity. Do not
write anything in the box before the number if the sentence in the number is
not true about the concept of intersubjectivity. Number 1 is done to serve as
an example for you.
/ 1 At the outset/beginning of an intersubjective human
relationship is self-awarenss.
2 Sometimes, it takes time and effort for an intersubjective
human relationship to take shape, develop, deepen, take
root and flourish.
3 We human persons are essentially the same.
4 Because an intersubjective human relationship is a subject-
to-subject relationship, the human persons in the
relationship mutully recognize and respect each other’s/one
another’s personhood.
5 An interpersonal human relationship is founded not only on
respect but also on love.
6 An intersubjective human realtionship is always more
profound than an interpersonal human relationship.
7 There can be an intersubjective human relationship without
love.
8 A subject-to-subject relationship is a relationship of human
persons who are equals.
9 The giving of one’s whole being to another and the receiving
of this by the other is free/voluntary.
10 The human persons in an I-thou relationship respect, accept
and love each other’s/one another’s entire being, including
their distinctions/differences.
11 It, in an I-it relationship, is always superior to I.
12 The I-it relationship is an object-to-object relationship.
13 A human person is not regarded as an object when he/she is
related to for business issues.
14 In a subject-to-object human relationship, somebody is used
to serve the personal interests of somebody else.
15 The I-thou relationship is a humanizing relationship.
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Additional Activities
Activity 1
Directions: On a short bond paper, draw and color what having a
meaningful relationship with others/friendship is to you. Also, label your
drawing with a word, a phrase or a simple sentence. The rubrics below serve
as your guide.
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Activity 2
Directions: Name the three individuals who are closest to you. And then
write three reasons why you consider each of them as closest to you.
1. Name
2. Name
3. Name
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REFERENCES
Textbook
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