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• Meaning of assertiveness
• Importance of assertiveness
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What is Assertiveness?
Assertive is:
knowing what a person wants and why
communicating one’s views, feelings, needs and preferences in a way that
is not threatening or harmful to other people
respecting other people’s rights, feelings, dignity and privacy
standing up for yourself and for what you believe is right
expressing your views clearly and fluently without being aggressive
standing up for your own and other people’s rights in a reasonable way
allowing other people an opportunity to express their opinions
having courage to express your feelings even about difficult issues in a
respectful and honest manner
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Passive, aggressive and assertive behaviour
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Importance of being assertive
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Ways to improve Assertive behaviours
Do not put yourself under pressure to be perfect – just do your best and
seek support if necessary
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Ways – 2
Make known your own desires and feelings – do not be sidetracked by others.
Make a short but clear statement about your goals
Express feelings about a situation without threatening others
Make a non-assertive person open up, e.g. say: “I don’t understand why you are
so up tight’
Understand that assertive responses are usually: